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How To Fix A Bad Kisser

Without being rude, a few tips on how to improve your partner's technique.

Bad kissers are everywhere, sometimes even in our own relationships. The balance between teaching your partner how to kiss without offending is a precarious one, but certain rules make it easier.

Want more tips on how to improve your partner's kissing? Check out How To Kiss Well.

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Monica Freeman Taken Single Again !
Posted May 2, 2009

I just play it my way, look everyone kisses differently
I know how i want to be kissed, and in the beginning Justin kissed like a goldfish under water, but 6 months of patience, and 'VOILA
He now knows how to pucker up propperly !

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Posted April 22, 2009

yeah, i didn't have my first kiss until i was like 35. I'm 22 now.

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Posted April 22, 2009

really im 13 and i had my first kiss like 2 years ago

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Posted April 20, 2009

if your name is RJ send me a message

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Posted April 20, 2009

nope not true i made this guy feel self-conscious and he improved :)

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Posted April 20, 2009

Great advice. I use this all the time.

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Posted April 20, 2009

The #1 rule of good kissing is to form a seal with the other persons lips so you don't slobber all over their mouth. Gross.

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Posted April 20, 2009

Puke

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Posted April 19, 2009

im only 12 havent had a kiss yet but i want a kiss lol only from this guy i really really like and he doesnt like me back my life is harsh

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Posted April 21, 2009

I'm 17 [Just turned 17 today :-)] and I didn't get my first kiss until I was 15.
Don't be in a rush. Let it happen naturally.
You're not as old as you think , because I felt the same way, then I looked back and realized how young I really was. [And still am.]

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Posted April 22, 2009

I'm about to turn 18 in a week and a half. And my first kiss was when I was 15 too! Weird stuff. :D

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Posted April 19, 2009

Your life isn't harsh at all, girlie.

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Posted April 20, 2009

I agree, 12 is too young of a dating age, .... Just my opinion...

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Posted April 19, 2009

agreed. and why're you telling us this? we don;t really care... =/

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Posted April 18, 2009

yeeeeea im only 11

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Posted April 17, 2009

good info here. a bad kisser is a deal breaker

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Lolita Single It all feels good.
Posted April 8, 2009

I don't even have time to indulge a man's bad kissing habits by doing it his way for a while so he doesn't feel badly about himself. If he isn't kissing right, which is basic stuff here, I will tell him so and then tell him how to kiss me the way I like it. If he doesn't learn after that, he's hopeless.

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Posted April 7, 2009

WTF? LEARN TO KISS ON UR OWN f*****s!

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Kataroo Single Glass half full girl.
Posted April 7, 2009

I wish it was this easy to fix a bad kisser. I've tried, but sometimes it just seems impossible. i guess it's true what they say, you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you get your prince!

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BigAl Taken
Posted April 7, 2009

Bad kissers are definitely not fab, but a little teaching never hurt anyone, did it? If you've made it into a relationship with a less than amazing smoocher, then he must be worth it. That means it's worth using these tips to show him how to use those lips and tongue!

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Posted April 4, 2009

I always hear men are not great kissers, i have yet to hear a woman being a bad kisser. what really is a good kisser? what is a so called good kiss? and are Hershey's kiss's good or bad?

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Posted April 20, 2009

The secret, as previously mentioned, is to stuff your mouth with chocolate before kissing her, then try to transfer as much of that chocolate into hers as is possible with your tongue. The lips should form a tight seal to prevent messy spillage of the melted chocolate and drool.

Good luck ;)

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Posted April 21, 2009

What about that Chocolate in a bottle you use in milk, is that good to? I just want to make sure i have this right.

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Posted April 5, 2009

Hershey's kisses are great.

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Posted April 4, 2009

stupid

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Posted April 3, 2009

lol sweet.

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Posted April 3, 2009

good!

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Posted April 3, 2009

great video!

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