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Dating Dealbreakers: Top 5 Reasons Guys Dump You

Get the male take on dating deal breakers in "That's What He Said."

 

In this episode of "That's What He Said," find out what men think about deal breakers: saying 'like' all the time, no interest in Star Wars or The Simpsons, having the same name as your ex, and a deal breaker you've never heard before!

Can you relate?

Discussion

Kitten89 Complicated =^-^=
Can't Relate - Posted October 22, 2009

wow...super hot guys...I'm drooling now...
Anywhoo...I'm not sure this video was aptly titled. I mean...When you say top 5 reasons, I'm ready to find out what the reason behind the time I got dumped was...
But I have nipples...
I don't particularly care for Star Wars, but I don't dislike it either...
I don't say 'like' excessively...
I totally dig the Simpsons...
And I nod while listening...rather than blabbing a lot...
So while all these guys in the vid are smokin', if those are really the only reasons why they have ever broken up with chicks...or worse yet, the most frequent reasons...I wouldn't touch them with a ten foot pole. That's my red flag.

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lbrad Complicated Complicated beyond my belief
Posted August 11, 2009

wow how pathetic. i have never liked star wars and would be so happy if i met a chick and hated star wars.i dont really think those are the TOP 5 reasons guys dump you. more along the lines of cheating, lying...fighting... etc.etc .

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BookMama Married Happily Married
Posted June 3, 2009

You know, these guys are all pretty young.

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jss Complicated occasionally worthy of comment
Posted June 4, 2009

I've never met any guys like the guys they use for guys in these videos, and I wouldn't hang out with them. They sound like the guys I hear about when women tell me about their worst dates ever.

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INOSH Taken
Posted March 27, 2009

My first date with my boyfriend of 5+ years was; we watched a bunch of episodes of The Simpsons while playing The Simpsons trivia game (I won, because NO ONE knows more about The Simpsons than me...except maybe my sister). Then we made out. Magic.

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nubiancoco Single
Posted January 30, 2009

ARE YOU KIDDING ME! COME ON GUYS GROW UP!

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Posted September 27, 2008

im a man and i like a woman to be sweet, caring, feminine and cute.

I dont give a s**t whether she says 'like' alot or hates the simpsons or star wars or has tanned nipples.

These guys are gay.

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Posted September 26, 2008

The no nipple discussion is just plain embarrassing and uncomfortable. That guy obviously hasn't seen a underdeveloped nipple or check again. He needs nipple therapy.

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Posted August 26, 2008

I love how the guy who talks about "like" as a deal breaker also says "like" like the world is going to end in 3 minutes and he has to make up for the lack of "likes" in his speech. Talk about lack of self-awareness...

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Posted August 18, 2008

Well, I can understand it somehow. But I would never have a relationship with someone who says "like" that often that it drives me crazy. There are some things people just can?t stand, so I don`t think these are stupid reasons. If a movie really means something to me and my boyfriend doesn`t even try to understand, he is not very interested in who I am. So starwars is a reason to break up in some way.

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Posted July 29, 2008

The Top 5 Reasons Some Lame White Guys Dump You

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Posted July 27, 2008

Funny because I am a girl and none of them are either attractive or interesting in my view. So they sound a little too full of themselves when they "dump" a girl for such shallow reasons. Most likely it was the other way around.

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Posted July 25, 2008

R u guys sirious?? i find it...... kinda shallow

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Posted July 25, 2008

hehe. i hate the simpsons. i just never really liked them. the star wars thing happened once though.

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Posted July 25, 2008

Gawd, why is everyone taking these guys so seriously? There are just some people getting together to talk about women (something men rarely do on camera in the first place). No one is asking you to watch. No one is asking you to date them. And, quite frankly, no one gives a damn if you don't like their opinions. They aren't speaking for the entire population. They are just giving their opinions. Get the hell over it.

And fyi, I'm a girl.

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Posted July 24, 2008

no nipples. AHHAHHAHHAHA

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Posted July 4, 2008

I looooove the simpsons :]

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Posted June 28, 2008

A bunch of dorks...can we get some real men?

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Posted June 26, 2008

Hmm after watching these...Ive gained knowledge about men and...steven is noiicceee ;) ha!

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Posted June 20, 2008

How old are these guys? None of them seem to be anyone I would give the time of day to. Sorry, I'm not hating, and perhaps I am typing too soon, but I would like to see some REAL MEN on this series. With realistic views and mature thinking patterns!

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Posted July 24, 2008

Yeah, I'd have to agree with you on that. It's nothing wrong with the comedic element because we all need a good laugh but I would need more specifics then what they gave.

Nothing wrong with sharing stories but ... they are mostly giving PERSONAL preferences and experiences instead of trying to tap into what might turn MOST men off, not just speaking from a personal standpoint.

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Posted June 19, 2008

i've seen all 8 videos now and i have to say:

rich is cute but... he's so screwed up in his head... woooaah...
someone neeeds theeeerapyyyy ....

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Posted May 26, 2008

so cheering for american idol like a f*****g zombie is not? shut up idiot

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Posted May 26, 2008

they are usually already married and with a good man...the rest are just using bitches

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Posted May 21, 2008

Haha, good comments! Check out some of our other videos ... we'd love to hear what you have to say!

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Posted May 19, 2008

omg i hate guys like these...
they just think women are supossed to like what ever you like.
geez....but i do like the simpsons and star wars are OKAY.
peace<3

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Posted May 15, 2008

Sorry. Real men no longer exist.

Feminism has taken its toll...Creating equal opportunity for women. (Which is good for them). At the same time, creating "nice guys" that no women want.

That's the price you pay. You can't have one end of the stick without the other.

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Posted May 31, 2008

That doesn't even make any sense.

I'd like to add ketchup to my eggs, but that might contaminate the world's milk supply - seriously where is the logic in your statement.

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Posted June 2, 2008

When you decide on something, you have to be willing to accept the consequences on that decision. (good or bad).

As in the case with your ketchup and eggs example, while you decide to have ketchup, you also have to understand that there are health issues with that decision. eg: increase salt intake into your body, etc.

The point of my comment is that whatever you decide in life, you have to accept the consequences of it. You can control decisions, but you cannot control the consequences.

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elizabeth Single
Posted September 26, 2008

"Star wars is like religion to me" ha ha

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pgmar Loving, thoughtful, committed, fun!
Posted September 25, 2008

These are a riot! Not sure if I buy them as truth but they're amusing.

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