Is my boyfriend hiding something?

“Is my boyfriend hiding something?”

I have been dating my boyfriend for three and a half years, but I feel like he keeps secrets from me when it comes to little stuff like his friends or his job. Why does he feel he can’t or doesn’t want to be honest with me?” - ‘In The Dark’ Born 10/24/84, NY

Dear “In The Dark,” You, Lolita of love, vivacious vixen—with a grip so firm you can stand by your man through hailstorms and sunny weather—are about to undergo an extreme relationship makeover. No, there is no plastic surgery in your future, but you are about to morph from a snoopy, Sherlock Holmes to a happy congenial Betty Crocker faster than you can say Miracles Do Happen.

Why? With Saturn in Leo squaring your five planets in the secretive, manipulative, cunning, sign of Scorpio until early September—you’re about to have a tent revival style, come-to-your-senses, clear-headed epiphany about love.



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