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7 Ways to Meet the Woman of Your Dreams

7 Ways to Meet the Woman of Your Dreams

If you’re a guy lacking the skills to meet your dream girl, fear not!

Sometimes guys get a reputation for always wanting to play the field—even when we’re in good company--and who are we to fight biology? That said, the truth is the vast majority of men really do want to find the woman of their dreams, the love of their lives, The One. It’s just that, for some guys, the process of finding her, approaching her, and talking with her seems unthinkable. To ease their quest and help guys everywhere get what they want, I’ve come up with seven sure-fire ways to find her, meet her and talk to her!

The Dos and Don'ts of Getting a Date

The Dos and Don'ts of Getting a Date

It's an age old dilemma: if I don't know how to get a date, how can I actually get one?

While we all may know one smooth natural at the art of dating, it’s a challenge for the vast majority. I know, I’ve been there myself. The key is learning specific skills and techniques to minimize your stress and ensure your success! Here are a few critical tips:  

Is It Normal For Your Man To Notice Other Women? [EXPERT]

Is It Normal For Your Man To Notice Other Women? [EXPERT]

Clarifying why men look at other women when they are with someone they say they love

Have you ever noticed your husband or boyfriend casting a glance at another woman’s cleavage or tight jeans? If you haven’t, then you probably haven’t been paying attention. Now and then I have a client ask me something like, “Is it normal that my husband was pointing out the college girls in short skirts at the bar last night?” These women ask out of true curiosity, fear, confusion, anger, hurt and even amusment.

Valentine's Day Gifts grill
They say food is the way to a man's heart. What's better than a grill to cook that food?

10 Awesome Valentine's Day Gifts For Him [PHOTOS]

Give him the elements of love this Valentine's Day!

Guys don't want Valentine's Day gifts, right? Wrong. Presents are always nice. For budgets big, small and in-between we've got tons of fun stuff your dude could want this Valentine's Day.

7 Times Women Overreact In Relationships, But Shouldn't
Sometimes you have a legitimate reason to be mad at him. Sometimes you don't.

7 Times Women Overreact In Relationships, But Shouldn't

Men and women have different communication styles. There are times he didn't mean to make you mad.

To put it simply: Sometimes men know they're doing something wrong (and they're just too lazy to do the right thing) and sometimes, they don't know. But as a woman, it's hard to tell the difference. Here are 7 times he probably didn't realize he was pissing you off.

Can I Make My Husband Change?
Can I Make My Husband Change?

Can I Make My Husband Change? [VIDEO]

Can you change his bad behavior or do you just have to live with it?

Can you really change a man? A common question, but the answer isn't exactly clear. Sometimes you don't want to change everything about your guy, but just a few things... like his bad behavior. 3 Ways to Ensure Your Relationship Survives Change In this video, Coach, Healer and YourTango Expert, Louann Schwager Tung helps a reader who's frustrated by her husband's bad behavior. She's wondering if she can help him change, or if she just has to sit and live with him. What can she do?

When It Comes To Relationships Are You Meetable?

When It Comes To Relationships Are You Meetable?

We spend so much energy trying to find the right one, but are we also ready to be that person?

Many women (and to a lesser extent men) are today bemoaning their inability to find Mr. or Mrs. Right. As a consequence, they peruse bars, nightclubs, churches, gyms, supermarket aisles; anywhere basically, hoping to find “the one”. Some of my girlfriends actually report that there are no worthwhile, available guys around. They’ve basically given up hope.

6 Dating Lessons I Learned From "Always Hit On The Wingman"
"Always Hit On The Wingman," ladies. It's a life-changing book.

6 Secret Rules For Getting The Love Life You Want

Love lessons from "Always Hit On The Wingman," the new must-read from Glamour magazine's "Jake."

Every month, I always enjoy reading Jake's column in Glamour magazine. Since 1956, it's been penned by a slew of anonymous, single men who've helped countless women navigate the dating world by writing honestly and openly about the game of love from a man's perspective. One of the more recent Jakes has written a book, "Always Hit On The Wingman: And 9 Other Secret Rules For Getting The Love Life You Want."

How to Celebrate Valentine's Day with a Sorta Boyfriend

How to Celebrate Valentine's Day with a Sorta Boyfriend

Here are some tips for handling the holiday when your relationship isn't official yet

So, maybe you're kinda-sorta seeing a guy, but you haven't quite DTR-ed (our shorthand for "defined the relationship") yet. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but things may go from casual to complicated as Valentine's Day approaches—especially if you and your guy have different expectations for how you'd like to spend the holiday or for your budding relationship. To help you make it through, we've outlined some tips to keep you sane.

love valentine's day
It's hard to read men's minds -- but we can give it a good try.

10 Signs Your Guy Is Definitely In Love With You

If only we could peek into the minds of our boyfriends and see what they really think of us.

Sometimes, we simply have to guess at what our significant other is thinking, which can be particularly difficult at the start of a relationship when you're just getting to know each other.

Top 10 Things Men Can't Stand About Women
What do men hate about women?

Top 10 Things Men Can't Stand About Women

Mens' biggest dealbreakers when it comes to dating and women.

#1: I Can't Stand Someone Who Likes to Spend Excessive Time as a Couch Potato. There's nothing wrong with relaxing, but being in a relationship with a couch potato can get old fast. In fact, men are so wary of lazy women that it sneaks into the Top Ten list of Can't Stands.