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Whether you’re out there looking for a compatible mate, are dating someone new, or have been seeing your current partner for awhile, try these approaches to enliven and enrich the connection between you.. Tip #1: Personalize your Expressions of Attraction
Sometimes, even when we have great sexual chemistry with our partner, we may feel shy or awkward when it comes to connecting on a more intimate level. This is particularly true when we're feeling intense levels of attraction, desire or attachment. We may fear lack of reciprocity from our partner, or even worse, withdrawal and rejection. Or, we may simply lack trust in our ability to communicate in a way that will be received with genuine care and understanding. Well there's good news here, for there are a number of ways to gently and slowly open our hearts and encourage our partner to do the same.
Whether your voice is a delight to the ear, unpleasant to hear or something in between, these easy exercises will help to make it more sexually appealing. And the more you practice, the quicker the transformation.
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What do Valentine’s Day and Halloween have in common? Both holidays give you a chance to dress up and perhaps wear something a little risqué that you perhaps wouldn’t normally wear. No matter if you are celebrating with your man, going out with your girlfriends to attract a new one or just pampering yourself on Valentine’s Day, put on something that makes you feel special, alive and sexy. So put on that little red dress, throw on a pair of high heels and pile on the vanilla-flavored lip gloss. Here are 5 easy red-hot tips that will surely shoot an arrow right into any man’s heart.
![How To Get Your Relationship To Sizzle [EXPERT]](http://images.tangomag.com/sites/default/files/imagecache/node-full/images/57435359-1.jpg "How To Get Your Relationship To Sizzle [EXPERT]")
At the risk of sounding like I’m going back to caveman times, the secret of a true sizzler is when a man is in his masculine and a woman is in her feminine (your "core energy"). Relationships are like batteries....if you put them into a TV remote control the wrong way around, they are NOT going to work. They need that spark! For the men, this means not being afraid of taking charge and taking care of your lady. For the ladies, don't be afraid of using your femininity; we all know how to do it, but don't do it often enough.
Turns out the qualities people find most attractive about others are ones we can control: Grooming, diet, posture — not the beauty you were born (or not born) with. So, rejoice: You don't have to be a supermodel to get dates and be noticed by men.
Do you have a "work husband" or "work wife" that you like to flirt with in the office? Are you worried that this attraction—however small—might border on overpowering your attraction to your own spouse? Study: Men Like To Flirt With Coworkers Out Of Boredom In this video, Therapist, Spiritual Healing Expert and YourTango Expert Dr.
Have you decided to snag that mate, to connect with your soul mate, to be in a relationship no matter what this year. You have a list somewhere of the qualities you desire in your mate. Did you notice that many of these qualities are based on old beliefs? You promised to be more available, more loving, more kind and ad infinitum! You’ve made these promises without loving yourself and discovering who you really are.
It's no secret that the male gender is a bunch of bumbling idiots when it comes to us ladies. Look at us! Our hips, our breasts, the way we smell, the softness of skin (which is completely natural and in no way attributed to mounds of moisturizer) and of course, just the fact that we are the fairer (read: superior) of the genders — we're the complete package.
Come on, just admit to it: You want to date that guy who all the girls gawk at when he walks into a room; the guy who's so painfully gorgeous that every time you look at him, you think to yourself: "I totally scored on this one." You do, you do — even if you don't realize it.
![Get His Attention & Stop His Neglect in 3 Steps [EXPERT]](http://images.tangomag.com/sites/default/files/imagecache/node-full/images/sad20woman-1.jpg "Get His Attention & Stop His Neglect in 3 Steps [EXPERT]")
Do you ever feel like NO relationship will EVER work? At least not the way you'd like it to - easy, simple, loving, adventurous, fun, passionate and sexy? I woke up this morning thinking of a woman who recently wrote me and felt I needed to share a story with you... One of my Magnetic Woman tribe members, Kysleen (from the Canada) recently asked, "Rhonda, I would love to bring back this guy's attention to me to the same level. He used to be interested. How could I appear more available to him?"
