In week two of the Love Life Makeover video series, YourTango Expert and Love Mentor Dr. Diana Kirschner coaches love mentee, Nadette, on how to access her ultimate self and set a love intention.
Deciding what you really want from a relationship starts with identifying what Dr. Diana calls your "Diamond Self." This is the greatest version of yourself that you can imagine—free of preconceived notions or fears. Getting in touch with this self helps you to then identify what you truly need from a relationship, whether you're already in one or are looking.
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Setting a love intention, which is a phrase or mantra that spells out what you want from love, is the next step in moving towards your love goals. Watch the video below to learn more about how to use a love intention and to find out how Nadette's love life makeover is going.
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Be sure to check back in next Monday for episode three of the Love Life Makeover video series, and check in with the Love Life Makeover blog through February 14 for daily advice on how to revamp and live your best love life. If you missed it, don't forget to watch episode one of the Love Life Makeover series: "Lose The Baggage! How To Get Over Past Relationships"
Interested in learning more about creating and setting a "love mantra"? Read this adaptation from Dr. Diana's new book, Sealing The Deal: The Love Mentor's Guide To Lasting Love: What's Your Love Mantra? Learn To Create One Now