The main thing that is causing you not to find Mr. or Ms. Right is fear. The fear of not finding Mr. or Ms. Right is what’s causing you not to find Mr. or Ms. Right. You have to get rid of the fear, for with fear comes doubt and unbelief. The word of God says, “For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.” 2 Timothy 1:7 Fear is a spirit that will torment you in whatever area it resides. In the area of relationship it will try to fill you with anxiety, apprehension and a feeling of being afraid. Afraid that you will not meet the person of your dreams. Afraid that you’re getting older and time is not on your side. Afraid that all the good men/women are being taken. Afraid that you will have to settle for whoever that’s left.
You have to get rid of the fear and know that the love of God will not withhold any good thing from you, for he gave you the best that he had when he gave us his son. Therefore “He that spared not his own Son, but delivered him up for us all, how shall he not with him also freely give us all things?” Romans 8:32 A part of the things that he wants to freely give you are your Soul Mate. You have to start operating in faith and with faith come belief and trust. Therefore you must eliminate all fear of not finding Mr. or Ms. Right and fill your heart with trust and belief that you shall be found by Mr. Right or find Ms. Right without a doubt, fill your heart with faith by hearing the word of God about the area that you need faith for. “So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.” Romans 10:17 As you fill your heart with scripture about relationship and finding your Soul Mate, that which you put in will change the outward manifestation of your circumstances. “For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he.” Proverbs 23:7 Once you change the thinking of your mind within, the world without will change automatically. © 2009 Dexter & Petula Jones
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