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• Sex often becomes the terrain where couples fight for control of the relationship. Despite your generous gesture, she may feel you have too much control over her when you provide her with oral sex. After all, orgasms require us to let go of control. Alternatively, she may fake orgasms as many women do and that may be more trouble than she feels it is worth. She may not know how to tell you the truth about her sexual response. Have you thought to ask her what she does and doesn't like about sex? She may not enjoy cunnilingus. Do you know what she likes and dislikes about sex? Having an honest conversation about sexual preferences is a good place to start. Assuming any girl in her right mind would want oral sex is your first mistake. We are all different and expectations, assumptions and judgments do nothing to create an atmosphere where honesty can flourish. Instead, approach her with an open mind and an eager curiosity to get to know her and her desires better. Make her feel safe and loved no matter what she feels. She will be much more likely to open up and tell you what is true for her. SEE MORE

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• Not knowing the specifics, it is difficult to say. Do you have diabetes? Heart disease? Are you taking anti-depressants? Do you smoke a lot of marijuana? Do you drink a lot? All of these effect your body's ability to create blood flow to your genitals. But please keep in mind that orgasms can be created simply by breathing. So no matter what your health or ability, you can enjoy a rich and rewarding sex life . . . if you are willing to explore your mental and emotional realities. So the next question is of course, were you ever sexually abused or raped? Have you had negative sexual experiences? If not, then how about your religious background? Is there sexual shame at work? Since I don't know if you are masturbating or having partnered sex, I can't shed much light on your question but I hope my questions have helped you to explore the topics which will bring you closer to an answer. Of course if you care to expand your query with more details I will be able to assist you further. SEE MORE

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• He could be sufferring from performance anxiety. Try informing him that alcohol is a depressant and as such will reduce blood flow to the penis. He is sabotaging his efforts to be a good lover. He may be difficult to convince due to his anxiety about his performance so give him the night off! Tell him to relax and let you do all the work. Start with his ear lobes and neck, work down to his nipples and further south but do slow. Tease him at every step of the way and encourage him to breath deeply. When you are ready for intercourse, sit on top of him and slowly lower yourself down onto his penis. Only go about 3 to 4 inches down and then pull up again. Repeat this shallow penetration for as long as possible. Don't let him take control. The object of this is to show him how erotic sex can be when he doesn't have to worry about pleasing you and keeping it up. If he does have difficulty with his erection at any stage of your seduction, keep a sense of humor. You might even tell him to "try NOT to get hard." This often elicits a laugh because it is so unexpected. And laughter creates more blood flow to the penis. How do I know this to be true? Because I have tested this technique on hundreds of men and it works! If you want to know more, feel free to contact me. As a Certified Sexologist and former Escort, this is my speciality! Veronica Monet, ACS SEE MORE

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