10 Signs That Your Marriage is Headed for Divorce

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10 Signs That Your Marriage is Headed for Divorce
Stop the pretending and denial and recognize these signs that your marriage might be in trouble!

Jessica can't deny it anymore. She's tried to pretend that her marriage to Doug is just fine. She's held out hope that the prickly dynamics between she and Doug would soon pass.

After their most recent argument, Jessica stopped pretending. For the first time in a long while, she could fully see-- and feel-- how far apart she and Doug have become. She has been asking friends and searching online for referrals for a coach that she and Doug could work with and maybe save their marriage...before it ends in divorce.

 

She hopes it isn't too late.

When divorce happens, it sometimes comes as a sort of emotional explosion. The end of the relationship may even be precipitated by abuse or violence. For other couples, it comes at the culmination of long periods of icy silence and neglect.

Divorce might come as a huge surprise that shocks or it may be expected.

If you can see the signs that you and your spouse are possibly headed for divorce, there may still be time to save your marriage. You can take steps to identify what's tearing you apart and begin to make some meaningful changes.

Be on the lookout for these potential divorce-indicators...

#1: Your usual mode of conversation is yelling and screaming.
If yelling, screaming and calling one another names is how most conversations end up, know that this will not foster love, trust and respect. These are essential to a healthy marriage.

#2: The “silent treatment” is an almost daily occurrence.
Motivation for remaining silent may be fear of upsetting the other person or it could be a desire to “punish” by not speaking or responding. The “silent treatment” is a direct route to resentment and more anger so be aware of this deadly marriage killer.

#3: You've stopped caring about whether or not your relationship will improve.
Regardless of whether you've tried “everything” or you have reached your frustration limit, if you hear yourself saying and thinking that you just don't care anymore, this could be a bad sign for your relationship.

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Susie and Otto Collins are relationship coaches and authors who help couples communicate, connect and create the passionate relationships they desire.



 

Location: Columbus, OH
Credentials: BS, CCC
Specialties: Communication Problems, Couples/Marital Issues
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