A Simple Tip To Make Your Relationship Last

By Sophie Keller. Posted on Aug 8th 2012.

Part of Sophie Keller's 'How Happy is' Series

Always let your partner know how much you appreciate what he or she does for you. Let him know the ways in which he makes you happy. Tell him how great he is in bed. Let him know how attractive you think she is, how much you respect him and what he does for a living. Your partner can’t guess what’s on your mind, and he wants to know that he is all you need. Also, show him how grateful you are for his generosity as much as you possibly can through actions. Perhaps do an errand for him, butter his toast, massage his shoulders or buy him his favorite chocolates. It’s the little things that you do to show you have noticed his generosity that make a big difference.

If you are ever in the situation in which your partner says, “I feel that I can never make you happy,” then you are not offering him enough praise or showing him enough appreciation for him to know that he is making you happy. This is a sign that if you are not careful, he will look for someone else who will be happy with him and what he can provide. So be sure to show your thanks through words and actions all the time.

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Happiness expert and best selling author Sophie Keller appears regularly on Fox, NBC, ABC, CBS and on KTLA 5 Morning News. Her books include How Happy is Your Love Life? 50 Great Tips to Help You Attract and Keep your Perfect Partner. How Happy is Your Home? 50 Great Tips to Bring More Health, Wealth and Joy in to Your Home. How Happy is Your Health? 50 Great Tips to Help You Live a Long, Happy and Healthy Life. And How Happy is Your Marriage? 50 Great Tips to Make Your Relationships Last Forever. Sophie writes regularly for The Huffington Post, she was 'Good News' Ambassador for LG Electronics, is an Ambassador for Jamie Oliver's Food Revolution and has been featured in many magazines including Self, Healthy Living and Women's World. Sophie has also created a workbook and guided meditation for women who have lost babies during or just after pregnancy called Healing After Miscarriage.

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