Romance from Venus, Sex from Mars

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Romance from Venus, Sex from Mars

Valentine’s Day falls on a Sunday this year, so it’s a great opportunity to have a terrific weekend of romance and sex!  Venusians love a man with a plan, so Martians, here’s a big a chance to sweep your Lady Love off her feet (and have some great sex while you’re at it). 

A good sex life is crucial to keeping love and passion growing in a relationship.  It’s like the glue that holds it all together.  With today’s hectic schedules, however, it’s sometimes hard to find the time to indulge in great sex.  The fact is that sometimes men tend to forget feelings and women tend to forget their sexual desire.  However, when mates prioritize time to remember their love and have sex, a relationship can begin to improve immediately.

Mars and Venus in the Bedroom explains how men and women experience sex differently and describes several types of sex to ensure the needs of both partners are met.  Basically, because men tend to operate mostly in the physical realm, the most powerful way for him to experience his love for his mate is through sex.  In fact, men actually need that physical sexual connection to feel their emotions and open up to love.  Although women enjoy great sex just as much as men, we first need intimacy and romance to best feel our hunger for sex.  A man tends to have difficulty understanding a woman’s need to relax first, because for men, they can be physically ready for sex nearly any time, while women need time to build up the desire. 

Sometimes when tension is brewing in a relationship, one partner will want to stop having sex.  But, actually, the best thing a couple can do is focus on creating better sex, because when the sex gets better, suddenly the whole relationship can improve.

Just as our palettes crave a variety of meals to keep our bodies functioning well, we also need to incorporate variety into our intimate relationships. Here are some ways to keep the passion burning:

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