Falling in love can feel like magic. It is the glue that holds us together; emotionally connecting us to everything that we do with passion and with all of our heart. Humans were made to love. We write love songs, poetry and operas, we cry during chick flicks and sometimes soap operas, and we have even created reality shows out of fairy tales (The Bachelor).
There is no more powerful love poem than, "How do I love thee? Let me count the ways..." by Elizabeth Barrett Browning (1806-1861)
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How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of Being and ideal Grace.
I love thee to the level of everyday's
Most quiet need, by sun and candle-light.
I love thee freely, as men strive for Right;
I love thee purely, as they turn from Praise.
I love thee with a passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood's faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints, --- I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life! --- and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death.
Who does not aspire to this kind of love? Most do, but many never find it. In our fast and easy, throw away society dating and mating have become more complicated than ever. Whether it's hiding behind profile's and blurry photos online, or sitting across from a stranger at a speed dating event, love is often elusive; and frustrated and disheartened singles seek answers.
So how can we turn it around? The magical ingredient to attracting your soul mate, is your vibration. What is your vibration? Everything in the Universe is energy, everything moves and vibrates - everything is vibrating at one speed or another, and so are you.
In the book, The Vortex, by Esther and Jerry Hicks, they write, Everyone who turns up in your life, from the people you call friends or lovers, to the people you call enemies or strangers comes in response to your Vibrational asking. You not ony invite the person, but you also invite the personality traits of the person.
The powerful Law of Attraction is at the root of everything that we experience.
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Andrew Carnegie said, Any idea that is held in the mind that is emphasised, that is either feared or revered, will begin at once to clothe itself in the most convenient and appropriate form avaiable.
If you are bitter about men, or fed up with dating and expect a negative outcome, it will be present in your vibration, which will then attract to you only bad experiences and keep love at an arms length, always just out of reach.