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5 Ways To Look & Feel Red Hot On Valentine's Day [EXPERT]

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5 Ways To Look & Feel Red Hot On Valentine's Day [EXPERT]
Don't be afraid to unleash your inner confidence this Valentine's Day!
How to look and feel special, alive and sexy on February 14th!

What do Valentine’s Day and Halloween have in common? Both holidays give you a chance to dress up and perhaps wear something a little risqué that you perhaps wouldn’t normally wear. Regardless of if you are celebrating with your man, going out with your girlfriends to attract a new one or just pampering yourself on Valentine’s Day, put on something that makes you feel special, alive and sexy. Put on that little red dress, throw on a pair of high heels and pile on the vanilla-flavored lip gloss. Here are 5 easy red-hot tips that will surely shoot an arrow right into any man’s heart. Dress The Part To Steal His Heart EXPERT

1. Feel Sexy. What men find sexy in a woman is when she herself feels sexy. Men notice your sexual confidence in the way you dress, walk, move your body and smile. Wear something that makes you feel sexy and sensual. Don't be afraid to put on a dress that you feel confident and a little daring in. This doesn’t mean you have to show your mid-drift or fall out of your dress. Men would much rather undress you with their eyes and leave things to the imagination than have it all displayed right there. Part of being sexy is leaving them with a sense of intrigue and curiosity.

If you give it all away to them, they may not have the desire to want more. For example, wear a fitted red dress that shows your curves and just teases the man with a low cut-out back. Or, perhaps you want to go more casual and sport a leather jacket with a lacy cami peeking through. Use fabrics that are touchable and great against your skin. Cashmere, silky satin and buttery soft suedes are the real scene-stealers. Touchable fabrics not only invite another's touch but they give you the added bonus of feeling great against your skin so you feel pampered and sexy. Find fun and unique ways to express your sensuality!

2. Dress Feminine. Men absolutely love a soft womanly touch. A dress, skirt and heels can make any man’s heart skip a beat. Display your feminine
sexuality with flowing hair or an attractive hairdo, nice nails, makeup and discreet displays of bare skin, plus colorful clothes and jewelry that are eye catching signs of femininity. Ladies, no corporate blazers please! While you are at it, remember to laugh, smile, create softness and be light and open on your date with your man. He’ll appreciate your receptive and delicate attitude and style. 5 Ways to Enhance Your Feminine Allure

3. Wear Heels. A man will love the way you move in a pair of high heels. There are three reasons why men’s jaw drop when you slip on the stilettos.  They love the way the shoes make your legs look, how they make you walk and move your body and how it exudes femininity. Find the perfect footwear to go with that Valentine’s Day dress. Think sexy, strappy, sparkly and high! Feel a little unsteady in the skyscrapers? Try a pair of platforms with a thicker heel to give you more support.

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Kimberly Seltzer

Counselor/Therapist, Dating Coach, Matchmaker, Social Worker, Speaker/Presenter

Think Hitch meets What Not To Wear.  That's me. Whether it's putting on a new pair of shoes, watching you flirt with a guy in a grocery store or matching you, it's all about feeling good about yourself so you can attract that right person and opportunities in your life!  Sign up for my free Body Type booklet and newsletter at www.eliteimagemakeovers.com and connect with me at kimberly@eliteimagemakeovers.com

Location: Beverly Hills, CA
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