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How to Find a Date on St. Patrick's Day Online and Offline

St. Patrick's Day is on a Sunday this year. You'll have the entire weekend to flirt and have fun.

Whether you know the history of St. Patrick or not, it’s the perfect time to brush up on your flirting skills to get ready for spring fever. With St. Patrick’s Day on a Sunday, you can start the weekend early by celebrating today.

To get into the spirit of St. Patrick’s Day, you don’t need to be Irish. If you practice these  online dating and offline flirting skills, you’ll likely have a date on your calendar before the weekend is over, or will enjoy the time together with the object of your affection.

Here are 12 Tips to get you in the mood to think green!

1. Send a text message the the person you’ve had a crush on to say “Happy St. Patrick’s Day. Even if they aren’t Irish, chances are they’ll reply to you.

2. Log onto your favorite online dating site and change your profile photo to wearing something green. Change your headling to say, "Do you have the luck of the Irish this weekend?" Change your the first line of your porfile to say, "Happy St. Patrick's Day."

3. Pick up a flashing green button that says, “Kiss me if you’re Irish.” Chances are you’ll get at least a smile, if not a peck on the cheek.

4. If you have a date on the calendar, pick up a green carnation for him or her. Although receiving carnations might appear tacky on Valentine’s Day, a month later it’s fine. It’s worth a chuckle or two and shows your date that you took the time to think of them.

5. Grab some friends and go to your local watering hole. You don’t need to drink green beer, or anything green for that matter to get into the spirit. While standing in line, comment on someone’s outfit who has caught your attention. Guys should wear a green tie. Ladies, compliment him on it, even if it’s the tackiest thing you’ve seen all month. It’s the kind of day where approaching others isn’t just accepted, it’s expected.

6. Smile. A smile is contagious. Practice the 5-second stare while smiling at someone you would like to meet. It’s the cue for them to come over and wish you a Happy St. Patrick’s Day. Who knows where the conversation will lead?

7. Bring a camera or your iPhone and  take photos of the festivities. Upload them to your Instagram or Pinterest account and share them on Facebook. Compliment the guy with the tacky green tee shirt and take his photo. It will help get the conversation started.  Chances are he’ll want to see his digital photo and may even ask you to take another one. You’ll be engaging in no time.

8. Put a green bandana on your dog’s collar and go to the local dog park. There’s a reason it’s called puppy love and it’s a great conversation starter.

9. Go to a St. Patrick’s Day parade in your local city. Everyone loves a parade and it will give you an excuse to start a conversation with those you end up bundled up with.

10. If the festivities are too much for you and you’d prefer avoiding crowds, go to a sushi bar or your favorite Japanese restaurant and sip on some hot green tea and order green-tea ice cream for dessert.

11. Set up a coffee date and order the green tea Frappuccino at Starbucks or meet at an ice cream shop and grab a mint-chocolate ice cream cone. If you and your date will be in the kitchen, try making this healthy Mint Chocolate Chip Shamrock Shake together. It’s one of my favorite Love Potions.

12. If you have a sweet tooth, bake some chocolate cupcakes and decorate them with green frosting. Bring a few for your date to nibble on. If you’re not the best in the kitchen, stop by your local bakery or sprinkles cupcakes store and select some luscious items all wrapped up and ready to go.

Keep in mind St. Patrick’s Day is the perfect time to practice the art of flirting. Find a singles dance in your area and sign up. If you're not one to visit a local pub, go to a public place and wear green and start smiling at someone and ask them if they're Irish.  You have permission to do it all.

Julie Spira is a top online dating expert, bestselling author of The Perils of Cyber-Dating, and is the CEO of CyberDatingExpert.com. She creates irresistible profiles for singles on the dating scene. For online dating advice, follow @JulieSpira on Twitter and at Facebook.com/CyberDatingExpert.

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