Any way you want it, that’s the way you need it, fetish dating

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Any way you want it, that’s the way you need it, fetish dating
New online fetish dating sites are popping up on a daily basis.

Fancy my fetish

There are many advantages at your fingertips in this new world of online dating sites. In the search for your perfect match, you are not only able to key in the height, weight, age, race, religious preference and locale of a potential partner, but now you can also key in any specific kink that you may desire.

New online fetish dating sites are popping up on a daily basis.

In my practice as a sex therapist and relationship coach I often get questions with regard to fetishes. Some people are interested in finding a cure for their fetish, some are seeking to indulge in their fetish and others are interested in finding someone to share in their fetish. A fetish is classfied as a fixation on an object and or specific situation that leads to sexual arousal. This also can encompass the obsession one feels towards physical body parts in a sexual sense.

Human sexuality is very complicated, coupled with society’s views on sexuality, it can make a person feel shame or hide their sexual preference, fetish and ideas of what turns them on. Many times people will marry or be in long term relationships and not be satisfied with their sex life or partner. They may hide their passion for high heels and stockings, or their obsession with feet and toes, large breasts or even the desire to be cuckold. Many of these people will be unfulfilled sexually and seek it out elsewhere. Sharing and enjoying a fetish with a partner can have a very positive effect on the romance and sex play in a relationship.

Being second only to getting fixed up by a friend, online dating gives a person the ability to shop for a partner tailor made to meet their specific needs, wants, desires and fetish.

In this day and age of internet online dating it doesn’t matter if you are sporting spiked heels and fishnets, or in your diaper and collar or even wrapped in rubber needing proper punishment, there is a site for you. Just look it up, log in and soon you can be enjoying long walks on the beach with your new partner, hand in hand or hand holding leash.

For your pleasure and amusement a few fetish dating sites:

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Dr. Dawn Michael

Sex Therapist

Dawn Michael PhD ACS

Location: Westlake Village, CA
Credentials: BA, MA, PhD
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