3 Things You MUST Do Before Your Next Relationship


If you're looking for love in 2015 then you HAVE to do these 3 things before you'll meet Mr. Right.

How many of you are looking for a relationship? I know the hands all shot up.

That's why we're all here, isn't it? That's why we're all put on this planet. To love, to find love, to seek and to fall in love. But the real question of the day is, what are you doing to prep for your next relationship?

I was listening to music tonight, sitting at home thinking to myself, how nice it would be to share this moment with someone special. I had some great music going. Checking out old watches on e-bay. I started thinking, how much work have I done to prep for my next relationship?

And what do I mean by prepping for the next relationship? Well...

Make sure you do these:

  1. Find Closure — The only way you're going to have a successful relationship the next time around is if you have closure from your past relationship. If you have any energy left over from a past relationship, if you've got any feelings left over for someone else, you will never be able to have a successful, new relationship. If you have leftover energy, or any feelings for someone else, you're not going to have clear energy for the new person.
  2. Forgive — Have you forgiven everybody including yourself? Is there any left over anger in you, meaning are you still pissed at an ex, still pissed at somebody that cheated on you, still pissed at a relationship not working out. You see, in order to have a healthy relationship, you need to clean out your past. In order to really love, you need to forgive anybody that's ever wronged you. If you are holding onto anger, that person still has a hold on you. Let it go. The beauty of life is letting it go.
  3. Move On — Listen, we've all had disappointments. I can think about a relationship I had where I fell head over heels in love, and it just didn't work out. It didn't work and she and I were equally responsible. I can't blame her for it not working out, and I can't blame myself. We both did things that killed the relationship. We both put walls up. We both didn't allow each other to love the other. And we really did not know how to let go. But if either of us is going to find love again, we have to have closure, forgive and move on.

In 2015, you may find love at your doorstep. You may finally meet the man of your dreams. The problem is, if you haven't done enough prep work, the man of the dreams could turn into the man of your nightmare.

I want you ready for love. You've worked so hard to find love. You've worked so hard to meet somebody great. I want you ready for it. I want you to make sure you've done the prep work. When you do the prep work, you are then available to experience the beauty that's coming for you. I'm ready. I want you to be ready too.


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