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The Truth About Men And Feelings

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The Truth About Men And Feelings
How to tell what he's really thinking... and feeling.
How to tell what he's really thinking... and feeling.
Guys get a bad rap when it comes to feelings. Basically, people think we don't have them, don't want to share them, and don't want to listen to them, either. But that's not true. Let me tell you about what's really going on for men when it comes to feelings, and show you how you can use this knowledge to build a solid foundation for a secure, lasting relationship.

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Guys get a bad rap when it comes to feelings.  Basically, people think we don't have them, don't want to share them, and don't want to listen to them, either.  But that's not true.  Let me tell you about what's really going on for men when it comes to feelings, and show you how you can use this knowledge to build a solid foundation for a secure, lasting relationship.
 

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Author of best-selling eBook Catch Him & Keep Him and free newsletter.

Guys get a bad rap when it comes to feelings.  Basically, people think we don't have them, don't want to share them, and don't want to listen to them, either.  But that's not true.  Let me tell you about what's really going on for men when it comes to feelings, and show you how you can use this knowledge to build a solid foundation for a secure, lasting relationship.
 
UNDERSTAND THAT WE DON'T FEEL THE WAY YOU DO

A lot of the pain and frustration I see women in results from thinking that when it comes to feelings, men function like women. But the truth is that we have a much harder time processing and handling feelings than you do.  We're not as good at it.  We also don't have the extensive support system that women have, which explains why men escape into things like work, sports, and the television.

If you can understand this and learn to work with us instead of against us, you're already getting a huge advantage when it comes to men and relationships.  The other thing to remember is that as men, we want to fix things.  And we get really frustrated when we can't.  Which brings me to...

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TAKE THE PRESSURE OFF HIM TO "FIX" YOUR FEELINGS

Of course, you want a man to acknowledge and satisfy your feelings and desires.  It's a man's place in a relationship to be a good partner, to care for you, to listen, to be a great lover, to connect, to be loyal, and to share.

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