Find Your Soulmate: Love Manifestation 101


Find Your Soulmate: Love Manifestation 101
This Soul Mate Secret has worked for thousands of people all over the world and it will work for YOU

What does it take to manifest the love of your life?

It’s an easy formula called The Soulmate Secret.  All you need is a little time, energy, intention and attention and someone to hold your hand and guide you right through.  The Soulmate Secret has now worked for thousands of men and women (all ages, shapes and sizes) around the world, and it will work for you too!


It starts with what the Buddhists call “Beginner’s Mind. You begin by taking your opinions, reasons and beliefs about why you can’t or haven’t found love and you put them on a shelf for now.   Once you allow yourself to “not know” how or when or where your soulmate will appear, it is as if the Universe perks up and takes notice.  You surrender and trust (just for now) that everything is about to work in your favor.

The second step is to create a clear intention.  Write out a statement that is a declaration to yourself and the Universe that clearly states that you are now ready for your perfect right life partner to appear in your life.

Example:  I joyfully welcome my soulmate into my life.  He/She is ready for a long-term loving, affectionate, monogamous lifetime with me as we create a fabulous life together.

Next, spend time each day in silence focused on how it “feels” inside your body to be in the present moment with your beloved.  Close your eyes and use your imagination and see them sitting across from you.  As you feel the heat radiate off their body what feelings are evoked in your heart?  Do you feel joyful? Excited? Relieved?

Spend time feeling these feelings (it’s ok to fake it 'till you make it) knowing and trusting that on some cosmic level you are truly spending time with your beloved.  

You can even use this time to have a silent conversation with them.  It’s important to do this every day. Remember, this exercise is about “feeling” not “seeing” so focus on emotions not literally trying to see them.

Becoming a successful manifestor – whether you want to manifest love, money, a new career, or simply a parking space – requires a certain level of emotional maturity.  Great manifestors have learned the art of managing their thoughts and emotions so that even when doubt, fear or other limiting feelings pop up, they are not swept into a spiral of negativity.  

Developing this kind of mental discipline requires that you make a deliberate choice to focus your attention on what you desire rather than on what you don’t want. 

For example, whenever I catch myself dwelling in a negative or unpleasant thought or feeling (yes, I still get unpleasant thoughts!), I say to myself “cancel-cancel,” and I then intentionally create a new vision for myself.

Article contributed by

Arielle Ford


Arielle Ford is the bestselling author of the highly acclaimed relationship book, THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest the Love of your Life with the Law of Attraction.  She is celebrating the release of her latest book in January 2012, WABI SABI LOVE: The Ancient Art of Finding Perfect Love in Imperfect Relationships.
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