Thanks for stopping by. When I started this blog in 2009, I was married. The marriage had been super challenged by some hard circumstances yet I was truly hopeful that we would work it out. In true Snow White fashion, I high hoed, high hoed and tried my ass off to make it work. I did not want to be divorced…again.
Things deteriorated and I had to acknowledge the writing on the wall. By 2011, any love he had for me was long gone and he made it very clear he would like for me to be gone. I had no money and no way to support myself. It took me 3 years to leave him. It was a very tough time. It seemed to be taking forever at the time, but now looking back, it seems like the blink of an eye.
I am renting a room from a good woman who is starting her life over too. We have much in common and enjoy one another’s company. We have a third roommate who is younger and a student. She is sweet and we two older ones are trying not to corrupt her with our battle stories of love gone wrong.
I am working in Customer Service at a start up and am very grateful to be able to support myself and be out on my own. This Snow White has learned some of what comes naturally to Rapunzel and Scarlett. I am much more assertive than I ever have been and while it is a little scary and makes my heart pound like crazy, people are taking advantage of me less and less often. Dr. Phil is so right when he says that we teach others how to treat us.
The Reason I Became A Helping Professional
For me, divorce was a welcome relief and my breakup pain came years earlier when the man I thought loved me, turned cold and distant. I am happy being single but remember so clearly the deep disappointment I have been going through. I look forward to writing about breakups and actually using a breakup to launch yourself toward new love. Emotional pain sucks but it is excruciating when you don’t allow it to flow up and out of you…once and for all. You must evict your ex from your thoughts, your mind and your heart. It is the only way to find new love.
I celebrate my freedom by sharing what I have learned about why we pick the wrong men and how to stop doing that.
I love telling you how my situation with men is at the present time :-) I have leaped another level and love it and I am so deeply grateful. :-) Its wonderful! The shift is that since the Saboteur Summit 5 Week Class, with my commitment and my wonderful self, I am falling totally in love with my self and all that is me. I see and look only for the good that is in me, my self esteem is higher and my heart gives and receives love:-). Thank you Catherine :-)
I have had three delighted dates with an awsome man !! I am so grateful and so enjoyed the wonderful making out(kisses), wonderful laughs, wonderful conversations, wonderful relaxed and steady sexy body and wonderful hands :-) OMG I am privileged, loved and blessed :-)
Again thank you Catherine, thank you for being you :-)
Janita :-) from Norway
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