YourTango expert, therapist, counselor and author Esther Perel
will be joining a prestigious panel at The Cutting Room in New York City for a World Sexual ...
While marriage dates back to biblical times, the institution has undergone a dramatic transformation in the modern era. What we call marriage today barely resembles its past profile. Formerly, matrimony was about economic sustenance, partnership, companionship, social status and children. Today, marriage is ...
”Open relationships” where both members
of a couple are “allowed” to have sex with other people, remains a relatively fringe practice. But is it possible that this will be a new way of ...
Tell me how you were loved, and I’ll tell you how you make love.
Our emotional history shapes our erotic blueprint and is expressed in the physicality of sex. Accordingly, there is a strong connection between our attachment map (defined as our expectations, conflicts, hopes and ...
An Example of Fantasy as a Tool to Heal
Our fantasies allow us to negate and undo the limits put upon us by our conscience, by our culture, and by our self-image.
If we feel insecure and unattractive, in our fantasies we are irresistible. If we anticipate a withholding ...