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A sacred code to access my higher self qualities

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I’ve met Svetlana in May of 2006 at the IONS Healing Center & Retreat in Petaluma. It was a joyful experience and our first meeting with Svetlana felt like a reunion of spiritual brother and sister. I asked Lana for a healing session to help me resolve some of my personal health issues and as well as issues with relationships in my family.

During her session, Lana opened her “magic box” and helped me create positive vibrations in my personal energy field. She helped me find and re-pattern old conditioned responses to current stress. I also expressed my interest in finding and resolving some of my personal childhood issues that prevented me from experiencing my life to the fullest. These issues included traumatic experiences due to domestic violence that began before my conception. My mother was a rape victim that resulted in traumatic pregnancy and later in my life after arrival to this world.

These harsh experiences and the vibrations or fear, despair and anger were hardwired into my cellular memory through the symbiotic connection with my mother via the umbilical cord. This energy was broadcasting its own show in my life that manifested in unsuccessful first marriage, negative thinking patterns and feeling like I did not deserve to be here, living on Earth amongst my fellow humans.

Hosting a constricted way of life had pushed me to abandon myself and dedicate my life to serving others unconditionally to win my place in their hearts. I felt lost. I was longing for love and tried to find it by being a perfect slave, a model child, an honor student, the number one in everything. Being extremely efficient in everything, I was living under tremendous pressure, limiting my needs and desires in order to be loved. I was trying to please anyone who could reward me in anyway that satisfied my thirst for love, acceptance, kindness, nurturing, forgiveness and absolution. Fear, blame and shame patterns polluted my emotions and limited my ability to come out from my self induced prison and live my life joyfully, responsibly and fully expressing my gifts and talents.
I guess my ultimate question for Lana was how to mend a broken heart after almost 40 years of living under the shadow of these negative patterns.

It felt like Lana gave me a sacred code that helped me access some of the higher self qualities that where locked away before. The answer that came during the session was a revelation that expanded my perception of who I AM and what I AM here for. I understood that it was time for me to learn to live a life that is fearless, shameless and guilt free. This learning has taken me into a deeper appreciation of myself. Embracing life does not feel like chasing the rainbow anymore. I feel rainbow colors in my life and in my body. As I am melting away negative vibrations that used to keep me stuck in the darkness, hiding to avoid the pain and suffering of not having the right to exist or to belong anywhere, my true colors emerge, manifest and radiate from my heart. I am finding my self sharing these colors with others, interacting with people from an open heart and unconditionally love. This is my service to humanity.

Now, as I travel through life, I feel light as a feather, curious to discover the hidden treasures at the end of each rainbow. I am a happy husband of a beautiful wife and a father to two precious daughters. I am a healer, in service to the planet, a crystal alchemy shaman inspired to distill and share the elixirs and blessings manifested from the abundance of my heart. I am a loving protector of the ancient wisdom inherited from the elders who traveled our Universe since the beginning of time. The teachings that I offer are infused with the Unconditional Love and Spirit. My love for creation and the gifts of Earth, our mother, connects me to the Universe in harmony with all that was, is and will be.

Working with Lana has proven to be an amazing experience and a true revelation of my essence and self realization. Her ability to dissect the issues that hold the patterns of ADD and other negative patterns in place has indeed promoted a breakthrough that allowed me to tap into my powerhouse and manifest my latest work. I have created a registered trademark for Higher Self Education and a set of tools to teach others about the crystal alchemy by distilling vibrational healing qualities of the crystals and revealing their connections to our DNA structure.

In addition, the changes that I have experienced allowed me to reconnect with others by creating a non-profit organization to support the families of mining prospectors and Earth explorers. Our organization helps them share their wisdom and experience by teaching our students and community at large about the principles of hand mining, a lost mining practice that extracts crystals and mineral specimens manually by hand without using any type of explosives or heavy machinery.

By following this lost art of mining the Earth and the natural healing vibrational qualities of the crystals remain intact connecting people to the primal energy and hands on attunement to the wisdom and support of the Earth while they are learning to appreciate the gifts of mother nature by nurturing a sustainable way of living.
Lana continues to give by sharing her wisdom in her latest books. I must say that it was about time that someone published a good book on this topic in a way that was easy to understand and practical enough that anyone can benefit from reading it.

I specially like the way she teaches how to find a peace of mind in the middle of the turmoil, in society that it totally dependant on the use of chemical cures that do not deliver much help, but often block your natural resources to encourage ultimate healing.
My experience taught me to rely on the healing energy of nature that helped me fight back whenever I got sick. When I was a little child, my mother used to pump me with chemicals in order to fix my health problems. However, as I grew older, I have learned to work with my energetic response and a powerful nutrition to remain healthy and strong. I never use any drugs or chemical medicine to heal, but rather I stay connected to nature and heal naturally.

I most definitely use Lana's wise recommendations that have extended my repertory of ways to heal faster and achieve a state of wellness. Those who have had the privilege of speaking to Lana during personal sessions or trainings, have to agree with me that just by listening to her voice you get a relaxing feeling that promotes a healing experience. During my sessions, she helps me get centered and focused by reminding me of who I AM.

I recommend her books to everyone who is looking for a deeper connection with oneself because her work does wonders regardless of one’s background, culture or education. She is a true inspiration because she speaks from her heart in a very loving way and that is very rare to find nowadays.

Julio C Valenzuela,
Founder of SIDDHISUTRA?,
Certified Reiki Master specialized in Crystal Alchemy, Akashic Records, and Indigo Children.
www.handminerocks.com and www.siddhisutra.com
 

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Lana Pritzker

Author, Dating Coach, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter

Lana Pritzker is an Intuitive,  Author, and the Relationship Coach. She is passionate about  helping women find their authentic self, and then find a relationship that they desire.

Want to understand your partner's behaviors and figure out your relationship puzzle without losing yourself? You can experience deep intimacy, self appreciation and fulfilling love life.

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Location: Chicago, IL
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