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I have been experiencing changes in my life which Lana saw coming months prior. She has a gift of knowing people by their Innate design, able to see and share their full potential long before they realize who they are. By knowing this, Lana can really almost predict their future.

Every time I lean to Lana for assistance, she is able to connect to a process I am going through and within minutes help me make sense from what was becoming a real concern. By listening to Lana’s input I am able to make a connection to what is really going on and make the necessary decisions.

Honestly, I see Lana as an Alchemist... practically able to transform her clients’ lives by taping into their essential self... the pure talents... their gifts.

Even today... a concern rose in my awareness and by consulting Lana, within a minute she was able to once again shine the light on the situation.

Whether my challenges where business, health, relations, self, Lana held the space for the transformation to take place. She is so in love with what she does! Just this past August we spoke of an issue and she rushed into her “laboratory”, excited to explore the topic revealing its dynamics. It was about my own Human Puzzle, a connection in which I've experienced a deep, sacral, sexual attraction but was ignorant of other dynamics and did not know how to fully engage and enjoy many other aspects of this forming relationship ...

Lana had a great insight and then e-mailed me a few pages of a document that helped me connect all of the dots of the dynamics of this relation... how it can rise to glory or explode to ruins. She was very accurate.

Here is a few lines from Lana's document:


Sacral Energy – The Power to Create
“We live in a word of Sacral struggle and submission. Our creative powers are often unconsciously jumbled by choices we make when feeling out of choices. We can change this situation by consciously noticing what drives us into the choices we make and directing the energy of our mind into creative powerful resource of the Sacral energy center allowing its full manifestation.

Every desire that comes from your heart needs to be incarnated on the material plane through the power of your creativity and full self-expression, through the earth energy presented as divine masculine aligned with divine feminine in your body. Notice when you are off balance and come to Unity within. That is manifestation of integrity in your own field that sets in the field of integrity around you as well.

Divine Male or Divine female energies are the life force energies that support our very core. They are not to be compromised in order to fit with others (males or females). A true power comes from the sacral center as energy expressed through Love without needing to prove you can love though sex or money. This power shows up as calm, confidence, competence... knowing, understanding, integrity.

Look for perfection in others and hold this space for others without needing to tell them anything... We are constantly in a process of collecting the pearls of wisdom. It take time and irritation of the new particle (idea, feeling, relationship) to be fully integrated in “the oysters” that we are and show up as a pearl. It takes a space (Love), a particle (your integrity) and a time (patience) for pearl to form fully. This a patent to creating pearls in your relationships

Be the pillar – the symbol of infinite patience. Invite people to play in the space of love, allowing them to be irritated or accepting of your integrity, promising them nothing as a reward (pearl) This way you find the people that do not sell themselves for money, but rather enjoy the power of connection that supports creating more power

Loving touch comes from both heart and sacral. This energy is often misread as a signal for sex. Staying in your heartfor men is often hard as it creates a feeling of weakness and triggers the need to defend yourself and your heart that is a message of many generations of men who went to war. It creates a deep inner unconscious need to protect and triggers a power that can both create life or kill it. Many men mistake this power for male power and many women mistake it for manliness.

Allowing the heart to feel the energy (not the story or the fear of war behind it) and simultaneously connecting to the energy of your body, the sacral area, gives you stability to deal with the energy created between people moment by moment. It is like allowing your sacral to emanate the heart energy and your heart to emanate sexual desire at the same time. This power can really support you in voicing your love, without the fear of rejection, at the level where love and sexual connection are blended in oneness.”

This is just the first page of 8 I received. What I have just realized as I was re-reading this, is that we had this conversation in August, but it actually has evolved into the work I am beginning to teach tomorrow. It is called “Conscious Awareness Transformation”.

Having this original conversation with Lana had opened the door for my personal expansion on this topicand aloowed me to communicate my truth from the sacral as a source... our co-creative core.

Lana tought me about how important it is to be consciously aware of the energy we constantly emanate and how it feeds o, our relationship, which is ur first baby. Being aware, we can interact in a WHOLE new dynamic in all our relations, intimately and sensually. I've even created a vesica pisces showing this dynamic of my relationship growing as a third consciousness is born with us, two people uniting as whole.

This is just one example how Lana was instrumental in my work. I am grounded, aligned to my purpose and I am beginning to teach. I've met a women of my dreams and just within few months we were married. Again thanks to Lana’s support helping me identify and become clear in mind, my relationships, my teaching niche and on my message that I am now able to teach to others.

Oskar Urbansky

http://mforward.com/
 

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Lana Pritzker

Author, Dating Coach, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter

Lana Pritzker is an Intuitive,  Author, and the Relationship Coach. She is passionate about  helping women find their authentic self, and then find a relationship that they desire.

Want to understand your partner's behaviors and figure out your relationship puzzle without losing yourself? You can experience deep intimacy, self appreciation and fulfilling love life.

Download  FREE Love, Loved, Loving CD , visit www.energy4action.com

Call 847 414 3730 or e-mail Lana at Lana@energy4action.com for your FREE Me, Him, Us session

Location: Chicago, IL
Credentials: CHT, Med
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