Built up his Self-Esteem and his Profile

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Dean was a single man in his 30s who was never married. He already had an appealing profile on Match.com. He was having trouble identifying women to write to and felt insecure about contacting women as he had just lost his job.

I worked with Dean to narrow down the profile and identify women that would fit his criteria. Together we selected women for Dean to write to, created an organized system of keeping track of his searches, and he is on his way to finding the woman of his dreams.

" I worked with Julie Spira to rewrite my online dating profile. With her help and coaching, I was able to find more quality women to write to online."~Dean, Los Angeles

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Julie Spira

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Julie Spira is a top online dating expert, bestselling author, dating advice columnist and coach, and media personality.  She's the author of the bestseller, The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online and is writing The Rules of Netiquette: How to Mind Your Digital Manners. Julie's been featured and quoted over 500 times in the news for her expertise on online dating and relationships including ABC News, BBC, CBS CNN, Cosmpolitan, E! Entertainment, ELLE, FOX, Galtime, Glamour, iVillage, Los Angeles Times, Mashable, Men's Fitness, Men's Health, New York Post, New York Times, Psychology Today, WIRED and Woman's Day. Her dating advice has appeared on eHarmony, JDate, Match, and Zoosk. Visit Cyber-Dating Expert.com and share your online dating stories. Follow Julie on Twitter @JulieSpira and Like Julie on Facebook.

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