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SEVERAL MONTH AGO I POSTED A BLOG ASKING MEMBERS WHAT THEY THINK ABOUT MY SITUATION WITH ME AND MY BABY'S FATHER. WELL I DECIDED TO GIVE Y'ALL A UPDATE ON THE SITUATION. LATELY EVER THING HAS BEEN WONDERFUL. WE DOES NOT ARGUE, FIGHT OR FUSS. WE FINALLY FIND WAY TO WORK THNGS OUT. EVEN THOUGH WE ARE NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP THINGS ARE SO MUCH BETTER. IT TOOK ALOT FOR HIM TO SEE HOW I WAS HURTING. IT ALSO TOOK ME HURTING HIM (NOT PHYSICAL) IN ORDER FOR HIM TO STRAIGHTEN UP. WE WENT FROM ARGUEING EVERYDAY TO ME CALLING THE POLICE THREE DIFFERENT TIMES, GETTING INTO A FIST FIGHT WITH HIS SISTER TO NOW FINALLY GETTING ALONG. AFTER ALL OF THIS WENT DOWN I ENDED UP TAKING THE CHILD AWAY FROM HIM AND NOT COMMUNICATING WITH HIM FOR A WHILE IN ORDER TO GET HIM TO STRAIGHTEN UP. HE NOW SEE'S THAT THERE ARE ALWAYS CONSEQUENCES FOR YOUR ACTIONS. NOW THAT ALL THE DRAMA IS OVER ,WE NOW ARE ABLE TO TALK TO EACH OTHER AND DISCUSS MATTERS ABOUT OUR DAUGHTER WITH NO PROBLEM. FROM TIME TO TIME WE GO PLACES TOGETHER AND WE TAKE OUR DAUGHTER OUT SHOPPING AND EVERYTHING BUT OUR CONNECTION FEELS LOST. I TRY TO KEEP IN STRICTLY ABOUT OUR DAUGHTER BUT HE FINDS WAYS TO PUSH THE ENVELOPE (SORT OF SPEAK). HE'S NOW TRYING TO HOLD CONVERSATIONS WITH ME ABOUT OTHER THINGS AND LIFE BUT I CUT HIM SHORT. WHEN WE GOES SHOPPING NOW AND I PICK UP STUFF FOR ME TO BUY HE PAYS FOR EVERYTHING.HE IS TRYING TO BE MORE THAN JUST IN MY DAUGHTER'S LIFE. WHEN I SEE HIM HE IS NOT JUST PAYING MY DAUGHTER ATTENTION.  MY JUDGEMENT IS HE DIDN'T KNOW WHAT HE HAD INTILL I WAS GONE. HE ALWAYS WANTED A FAMILY AND I GAVE IT TO HIM AND HE THREW IT AWAY AND NOW WANTS IT BACK BUT I AM NOT COMING BACK. MY ADVICE TO ANY MAN IS WHEN YOU FIND A GOOD WOMAN HOLD ON TO THEM , DONT TAKE A WOMAN'S LOVE FOR GRANITE. IT TAKES A REAL MAN TO DEDICATE HIS-SELF TO A WOMAN AND VICE-VERSA. HOLD ON TO YOUR LOVE...................

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