4 Ways To Tell If He's The One

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Is he the one you've been waiting for?

3. He's your best friend. I hate to sound like a Queen song, and cheesy as it may be, the best relationships are the ones where the couple would count their partner as not only a lover, but their best friend as well. They don't just love each other...they like each other. A lot. This doesn't mean that you ditch your girls and expect him to cancel his weekly basketball game in order to go shopping with you. It simply means that he's the first person you call when you need to talk something out or have big news to share. Additionally, it means that you genuinely enjoy spending time together and experiencing the in between moments of life in each others company.

4.He fits the bill. Many women have a long, detailed list full of the qualities they desire in a man, and this can backfire because there is no such thing as a "perfect" man. There is, however, a man who is perfect for you. When you look at your list of desired qualities, a few should jump out at you as non negotiables. Maybe it's very important to you that the man you're with want children, or maybe you are looking for a guy who is responsible and financially secure. Whatever your must haves are, if he's the One, you won't have to bend or ever feel like you're settling. Sometimes though, it's best to throw the list away and let nature (or Cupid) take it's course!

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