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Stop, Look 'n Listen


Focusing your energy and your efforts BEFORE you pull the trigger in 2011.

I was all ready to dash wildly into 2011, arms open wide, heart racing with enthusiasm...and when it didn't happen by mid-week this week, I stopped everything to reflect. 

Doing so allowed me to see that what I needed first was to take the clarity I had created for myself in the last few months of 2010 and put my to do list and my schedule through that filter.  Not everything I was up to last year applies now. 

Don't let the New Year run ahead of you down the road.  It's the end of week one.  Click through to read my After & Before Blog post Stop, Look 'n Listen if you need more awareness and aligned action to make week 2 a success.



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