Can’t Find Love? Intuition to the Rescue!


Listen to your intuition and use it as a compass to find love of a lifetime!

You can avoid losers and heartache by listening to your intuition instead of ignoring it. Time and again, I hear my clients say to me the following:

“Something told me he wasn’t who he said he was.”
“I had a feeling that he was cheating on me.”
“I knew I should have never become involved with him.”

People may say animals are stupid, but in reality they are smart because (unlike humans) they trust their intuition. In fact, if your pet doesn’t like and growls or hisses a lot at a potential mate, that is a red flag you need to look at. Animals are not taught to ignore their intuition like we humans are. When it comes to listening to your gut, there are many people around you that are doubting Thomases, and will tell you that your intuition is wrong.

Take a minute and ask yourself if you ever had a feeling about something, ignored it, and later wished you had listened to it? I bet quite a few times. So how can you tell when it is your intuition? The following in my Pamela Psychic Insights blog explains how to know: 

The Difference Between Intuition and Ego

Intuition comes in flashes.
Ego stays.
Intuition is soft and easily missed.
Ego is loud and very noticeable.
Intuition does not always makes sense.
Ego has lots of logical explanations.
Intuition needs trust.
Ego demands that it is right.
Intuition is often right when you listen and act on it.
Ego can be painfully wrong but will defend itself till the end of time.
Which one do you have faith in?

I would like to share two personal stories of how I used my intuition to help me avoid a bad relationship and to find a keeper. Some of you may be thinking, “You are psychic so it is easy for you.” I and other psychics are only given information from our guides and Angels that are useful to others. Sure, we get lots of insights but so do you. The differences is psychics have learned to trust their gut, instincts, and messages from Angels, guides, and the other side. When it comes to our love life and other relationships, we have lessons to learn just like you.

Mr. Wrong

I meet Mr. Wrong on an online dating site and we went out on two dates. I felt something was not quite right on the first one, but could not pin point what it was. As a love expert, I often tell my clients to give someone a second chance because most people are very nervous and uncomfortable on the first meeting. Of course if they were rude, dangerous, or disgust you on the first date, do not go out with them again. He was kind and polite to me so I decided to go out with him again.

The second time I went out with him I allowed him to drive me to the event because my intuition told me he was safe and would not physically hurt me. But during that night I felt he was rude because he answered his phone four or five times, instead of letting it go to voicemail. At one point, Mr. Wrong pulled into an apartment parking area to take one of the calls, I assumed it was because it is illegal to talk on the cell phone in New Jersey while driving. I thought it was odd because when he finished his call, he got out of the car and asked, “If I was coming.” It turned out we were at his daughter’s apartment and he wanted to stop in, which he forgot to mentioned to me.

Yes, his behavior was inconsiderate regarding the phone, but he was also nice and considerate at other times during both of our dates. I could not put my finger on what was wrong, but just kept getting gut feelings that there was something really off with this man. Even though I was curious about what I was picking up on, why would I waste my time to discover what it is? I politely let him know that I was not interested in a romantic relationship.

Mr. Right

Flash forward to when I had been living in North Carolina for a year or so. I had not been dating much and gave up on online sites a few months beforehand. Out of the blue I received an email of potential candidates from OK Cupid. There was one man who made me felt that I needed to go back onto that site and send him a flirt. Which I did and never got a response from him. In hindsight I realized my Angels used this stranger to entice me back to the dating sites.

Like many online dating sites OK Cupid allows you to see who viewed your profile. There was one man whose energy stood out from the other views. His profile was so interesting and I felt such good vibes from it. For about a week I kept looking at it and wondering why he never messaged me. I felt that push to email him, although I believe that men should message first especially when they had viewed my profile. Finally I said to myself, “What is the worst that could happen?”

In his profile he said the one thing he was willing to admit in public was he liked the Bee Gees, Abba, and the Carpenters. My intuition told me to use that as a reply and not to mention that I wasn’t crazy about Abba. I love the Carpenters and like the Bee Gees. He responded. I later found out the reason he did not message me is because he felt I was too pretty to be want to be with him, because he had been rejected from some other women on the site - their loss, my gain. The rest is history. We have been going strong for over two years! I am grateful that I listen to my intuition, took a chance, and did not miss my opportunity with him. I have used my intuition the whole time, especially during those times when I get my doubts or female neediness that all women get.

It is a must to use your intuition in dating, relationships, and with your partner. Would you like to learn how? If yes, contact me at