Nancy Carbone, Other - Expert

I Believe

If you do not consider yourself then no one else will. You cannot find true love without having love for yourself. We cannot rely on others to make us feel good about ourselves, otherwise you will feel not good about yourself. The more we find fault in others, the more we avoid looking at that part in ourselves. If someone tries to change the real you then pleasing them will only deny who you really are, and suppress your actual self. The more you please others, the more you sabotage yourself and put yourself last. Having a strong sense of self means you can self validate not self depreciate.

About Nancy Carbone

I am a relationship therapist and psychodynamic psychotherapist who assists individuals and couples to address the underlying feelings that underpin stuck patterns of behavior, in order to locate the real self.  Trained in the psychoanalytic Masterson approach,  I am well versed in dealing with relational traumas and attachment issues, as well as personality disorders.

 I offer online counselling and enjoy writing about relationships. In order to find out more about my services and articles visit 

https://www.counsellingservicemelbourne.com.au/personal-counselling/rela...