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What Men Think: Ladylike Makes a Lady Luck

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Men like women because they are feminine. They get a thrill from the pretty things we do.

Want to know what men think? When flirting with a guy, aggression is not something that he’s going to find attractive. Soft spoken, gentle, sexy, and confident: These are the qualities that a man looks for in a woman. Expressing your femininity through your demeanor, dress, and speech is a major turn-on.
 
Men like women because they are feminine. They get a thrill from the pretty things we do. So speak sweetly, use a great smelling shampoo, invest in an eyelash curler and dress like a lady. It’s unattractive when a woman swears and uses improper language. If you’re intimate go ahead and talk a little dirty but, please, keep it in the bedroom.
 
Charm goes a long way with a man; so don’t be afraid to lay it on thick. Always smile when you talk and you will captivate your audience. Wide eyes and a big genuine smile will cast a spell on any man that you talk to.

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