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Try this 3-step process to put the spark back in your relationship!
By Lisa Schrader — Written on Jul 03, 2012
2. Share a vision for the kind of passionate lover you both desire. Always state it in the present tense. Your declaration can sound like, "I am a goddess who radiates sensuality and love. I open to deeper levels of orgasmic pleasure everyday." Listen carefully to the vision your lover has for themselves. Keep bringing yourselves back to the new story you are writing together.
3. Write a story together about who you both are becoming as a sexually awake and vibrant couple. When the old stories come back, gently bring yourselves back to the new story. Remind yourselves that nothing is fixed. Everything and everyone is constantly changing. This is the beautiful dynamic of life, sex and passion. If You're Bored & Lonely In Your Relationship, Do These 3 Things ASAP
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Thank you, Byron Katie