Years in Practice

6-10 years


Chicago IL 60640 - United States



Additional Expertise

Life Coach, Matchmaker, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter, YourTango Expert Partner

I Practice in

Multiple states/provinces, please inquire



I Believe

"We all have the ability to create our own successes by creating our own opportunities.Use your all of your strengths and resources and put them to work for you!"

About J. Cameron Gantt

Hello Daters!

My name is Cameron and I am the head matchmaker/dating coach at Insti(Gay)tor. I specialize in helping GLBT singles find loving relationships that work for them.

Lets face it, finding love can be hard. Many of us work hectic schedules, have grown tired of the bar scene or simply just may not be up-to-date on our methods of flirtation.

At Insti(Gay)tor, we offer a variety of membership-based services that can not only help you target your search for love, but also provide a safe and exciting alternative to the usual.

I have been coaching for about 10 years now, with a 3 year concentration on gay dating and relationships. I find that as I continue to focus on building my abilities as a coach, I am constantly developing new ways to put my talents to work for singles in the gay community.

My clients often refer to me as a “Mr. Fix It” and often compliment my ability to see the big picture. I am all about strategy so once we isolate the issue, I work with my clients one-on-one to develop a results oriented game plan and from there… It’s time for action and accountability!

You see.. My goal is to help you find the man or woman of your dreams by eliminating the frustration that comes with the dating process and giving you the resources you need to improve your love life.

Through my exclusive matchmaking and coaching packages, speaking engagements, online media and over one thousand subscribers, I have instigated over 50 dates. Over a 1 year period, 32 of those first dates resulted in a 2nd meeting. Eleven of those members are now in relationships based on introductions received through Insti(Gay)tor… and to be honest, I’m just warming up!

As convenient as it would be, love doesn’t come in box. It doesn’t come perfectly packaged with a ribbon on top. It does take effort and if what you are doing is not working, why not step outside that box and try something different?

Change can be a scary thing, especially when it comes to dating, but it definitely helps to have someone to guide you through it and get you to where you want to be.

With Insti(Gay)tor, it’s like having your own personal wingman cheering you towards  success!

Thank you again for checking us out and don' forget to Download our FREE E-Guide “3 Secrets To Attract More Dates” or contact me directly for a FREE 60 minute consultation.

J. Cameron Gantt Success Stories

Starting Over - With A Little Help

Gay men

​"Cameron is a bad ass! He’s like a cross between Hitch and Olivia Pope except he’s real. He helped me face some very tough situations and get over many of the hang-ups that I was holding on to from past relationships. I consider him to be a trusted advisor when it comes to playing the gay dating game." – Sergio, NYC

Together - 1 Year Later

Gay men

"I started working with Cameron and he really took the time to understand my needs. He set me up on a few dates and I was pleasantly surprised with the men he had scouted for me. I have been partnered with one of the guys for the past year and a half and I think he’s the one." - Jason, NYCmore


Sucessful Match in 3 Months

Gay men

"Things are awesome! After signing up and working with Cameron I approached a special someone and 3 months later we're in a relationship. I am so happy and owe it all to you guys. Keep up the good work!" - Patrick , Schaumburg, IL​

Gay Dating Strategies - 1st Approach

Gay men

"I have seen a huge transformation in my personal skills relating to dating in general. I have more confidence to start the first approach. I have learned invaluable techniques for handling a variety of situations you guys are the best!" - Marc, Chicago, IL​​​

Insti(Gay)tor Know's Gay Dating

Gay men

​"Insti(Gay)tor has definitely exceeded my expectations. It is the best matchmaking service I have enjoyed in a long time. I’ve taken memberships with other prominent dating services, but this is by far my best." ​- Jeremy , NYC

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