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Keeping the LOVE ALIVE!


It occurred to me that after 3 days of non-stop bickering, threats, fighting and screaming, and finally being worn-down and emotionally drained that there MUST be something that I could DO. After long thoughts and tapping into a higher space in my mind, it came to me. It is ME. Yes, it's ME. I accept full responsibility for my attitude, my action, and my reactions. These are things that we ALL own. By owning these thoughts, I also have the ability to alter them, without blame to someone else. Our action, thoughts, reactions, etc. are only ours and ours alone. By shifting those just slightly, we gain a new perspective. Today, I wrote about this new perspective on my blog, and I share this with you, hoping that it may click with some of you!

Sending you angels,


Expert advice

Save your breath because you only need two words to make him commit.
Are you REALLY thinking about their happiness?
If you keep finding yourself in heartbreaking, dead end relationships, listen up.
It seems like you can't do anything right.