Have equal rights for women literally destroyed the balance in modern day relationships ? What is the difference between present day society and from our society 40 years ago? Why are there so many divorces, broken homes, and single parents today as opposed to yesterday? What is the one variable in a relationship that has changed from that period until now? Women. Women have too many choices like the proverbial Eve in the Garden of Eden. Equal rights have gone to women’s heads, the single factor that has changed drastically over the past 40 years. Men are still the same, trudging along through life as they had before, to bring home the bacon and take care of their families. On the other hand women have become more like men instead of the nurturing mothers they were years ago. Women are confused. They do not know if they want to be bosses or mothers. You cannot serve two masters. Something has to suffer. Women in America are in conflict with themselves because they have been granted the opportunity to do whatever they desire. Many choose to be like men and bring home the money. So if both parents are working, who is raising the children and giving them the love , hugs and kisses they need? That chore is left to babysitting factories and television programs that are too advanced for even young adults to follow. Where is the love of our mothers and grandmothers of yesterday? Cooking Many women do not want to or even know how to cook these days. There is no love in the fast food we eat. Remember the old saying, “You are what you eat?” If there is no love in the food we are growing up eating, how can there be love in us and in our hearts? It is something about that image of grandma making freshly baked chocolate chip cookies in the kitchen that makes you smile and warms your heart. Not only did they taste good, but they left a lifetime impression. You could feel the love grandma put into her special batch. Babysitters / Daycare Putting your child in daycare is not the optimal way to input love into the hearts and minds of children. True, you have your exceptions to the rule, but modern daycare facilities are more about the money than it is about instilling love, and good values into the children. All you have to do is look at the results of today’s society compared to yesterday’s results and ask yourself as we build more jails, have we become a better society? Next: Dress and role confusion... More Juicy Content From YourTango: How To Find A Good Man To Marry? Use Common Sense Why Men Cheat: The Secret Revealed VIDEO The Best Relationship Advice From YourTango Honestly although I believe in equal opportunity for all, it should be considered that when women have the choice more have chosen to speak and act more like men. There can be no order in a home when you have two conflicting ruling parties with equal status. Dress Have you been to Facebook lately ? Have you seen the vast numbers of half-dressed women with their booties purposely pointed in the direction of the camera? What does it mean when a woman takes a picture for the general public and purposely points her butt towards the camera? Is she saying do you want to get to know my nice butt? Many of these women have kids, some on the photos right along with them. What kind of examples are she and the many other women setting for the younger generations of women that look up to them? I am not sure, but it is clearly a stretch from the examples set by women 40 years ago. There are many issues we need to leave in the past, but there are also many values we should consider holding onto. We have to incorporate some basic desires and principals that we should stand by and keep or we are literally doomed as a society. We will have failed our children’s future. Role Confusion Why do women argue with men as if they are men? Continue reading the rest of this article at: http://www.howtogetthemanofyourdreams.com/understanding-men/ -Relationship Coach Darius J. www.HowToGetTheManOfYourDreams.com
