Dating For 2 Years Plus A Messy Breakup


Three months after we started dating I had to move away for school.

I had been hoping he would realize that wasn’t what he wanted and that he would message me. It’s been a week now and I haven’t gotten a message from him. I really do want to be with him and I truly believe he will treat me better, it just seems like after the first time he broke up with me something changed. He never stopped telling me he loved me, we were always in constant communication, he always talked about spending his life with me and that was just suddenly gone. I want to be with him and I believe we have something really good, we just need to work together to fix certain things. I don’t want to lose him for good, I love him and I want to be with him.. I just don’t know if that’s what he wants anymore and if he was looking for a way out, I hope that’s not the case. I haven’t messaged him because I’m trying to give him space.

My friends keep telling me he’ll come crawling back because there’s no way he can walk away from what we had, but he’s never gone this long without talking to me and I’m starting to get really anxious and just scared that he’s really gone and there’s nothing I can do about it. I just need some advice on how to handle this, I didn’t see this coming, he promised he wouldn’t break up with me again and I believed him