Brighten Someone’s Day

Love, Family

The happiness of people in our social networks matters MUCH more than you think.

The happiness of people in our social networks matters MUCH more than you think. Here’s why: Our friends influence what we think of as normal, and that influences our habits, feelings, and behavior, which, in turn, make us happy. Or not.

It is somewhat unbelievable, I know, but research shows beyond a shadow of a doubt that my next-door neighbor’s best-friend’s co-worker–whom I’ve never met–often influences how happy I am. Read more about this amazing social network effect on my Greater Good blog.

What if you read that post and start thinking: “OMG, my friends are those complainers Christine describes”? For crying out loud, don’t drop your friends. The answer is NOT to get out of your social network, but rather to INFLUENCE the happiness of your network.

Take action: Do something this week for a friend–or even a distant acquaintance–that will make them happier. Research shows that we get great joy and satisfaction out of helping other people, more even than if someone were doing something to make ourself happier.

Remember, even a very small act of kindness can brighten someone’s day; share what you decide to do in the comments below.

If you want specific ways to raise the happiness of your friends or your community, this is what my Raising Happiness class is about. Class started October 3rd, but it's not too late to join! 

May you be happy,


This article was originally published at . Reprinted with permission from the author.