Communication Problems

Years in Practice

10 years +


Los Angeles CA 90292 - United States



Additional Expertise

Relationship Coach

I Practice in

Multiple states/provinces, please inquire



I Believe

I was an early adopter of the Internet and have been passionately helping singles find love online for 20 years.  

About Julie Spira

Julie Spira is a bestselling author, dating advice columnist and coach, online dating expert, and media personality. She is the author of the bestseller, The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online and hosts Ask the Cyber-Dating Expert show. Julie's services include creating IRRESISTIBLE Profiles™ for singles on the dating scene and private relationship coaching. Visit her at CyberDatingExpert.com for free dating advice,  to share your online dating stories, and to sign up for the Weekly Flirt and your Free eBook, The 5 Secrets to Finding Love Online.

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Julie Spira Success Stories

Built up his Self-Esteem and his Profile

Men seeking a relationship

Dean was a single man in his 30s who was never married. He already had an appealing profile on Match.com. He was having trouble identifying women to write to and felt insecure about contacting women as he had just lost his job.more

I worked with Dean to narrow down the profile and identify women that would fit his criteria. Together we selected women for Dean to write to, created an organized system of keeping track of his searches, and he is on his way to finding the woman of his dreams.

" I worked with Julie Spira to rewrite my online dating profile. With her help and coaching, I was able to find more quality women to write to online."~Dean, Los Angeles

Her New Profile Led to Dozens and Dozens of Dates and a New Husband!

Women starting over

I started coaching Robin shortly after the man she had been dating online broke up with her. She was hesitant to go back online, so we gave it a short break. During that time, we rewrote her profile, changed her photos, and she re-emerged with an IRRESISTIBLE Profile. This profile led to dozens and dozens of dates. I continued to coach Robin after she met the man online whom she married in a romantic beach wedding in Malibu. Robin never knew she could be this happy and find a relationship that was so effortless.

Attracting More Quality Men

Women seeking a relationship

Janice came to me frustrated that she wasn't receiving emails from men she was interested in. She wanted me to craft an irresistible online dating profile for her. She was concerned that her age (50-something) was preventing men from writing to her.more

We changed her screen name to one that was more captivating, narrowed down her description to the hobbies she was most interested in, and posted new photos with more color so she would get noticed in the crowded playing field.

Janice was thrilled with the results. Read her testimonial.

” Julie helped me create a new Internet dating profile that described me in a better way to attract more quality men. She knew exactly how to express exactly what I was trying to say. It didn’t take long before I started to receive more emails from men that I am more interested in."

Found Her Husband in One Date

Women seeking a relationship

“Thanks Julie for putting me on OkCupid! I finally got married this weekend to the first man I had a date with in my dream wedding. He’s my soul mate. Thank you and I send you so many blessings and love your way. You have been so important on my journey.” ~Bonnie, 38more

Bonnie had been dating online for a few years, with no success. We changed sites for her and gave her a fresh profile. What made her profile unique, was that we selected her favorite quote from Rumi and added it to her profile. When her now husband first looked at her profile, he found Bonnie attractive and wasn't really sure whether to write to her or not. That was until he saw the Rumi quote. It turns out that Rumi was his favorite poet as well. It was the only date she had on OkCupid. They are now happily married and just had their first child.

Started Over After My Husband Died. Julie Helped me Find My Soulmate

Widowed women

“I had been happily married for 25 years and was nervous about starting over again. After healing from my husband’s death, I worked with online dating coach Julie Spira, who gave me the confidence and tools for dating online. I signed up for the Totally in Love package, where Julie created my profile and held my hand along the way. Within a week I met someone who I really liked. I became optimistic about finding love again. A few months later, I was pleasantly surprised as I fell in love with my Soul Mate.”more

~Gail, 58

Julie's New Profile Brought Immediate Results of Great Guys!

Women newly dating

"I had spent several months waiting to hit “go” on my online dating profile, unsure about my photos and insecure about the wording of my responses. After spending just a few hours with Julie, we were able to craft a profile that truly reflects the real me. She insisted we post it live as soon as we were done. The results were unbelievable. Within hours, I received 5 thoughtful emails from men who fit my criteria. Several more soon followed and continue to pour in. Without her invaluable advice, I would have never had the kind of success I’ve been able to have. Thank you Julie!”more

~Maggie, 35

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