Communication Problems

Years in Practice

10 years +


Los Angeles CA 90069 - United States



I Practice in

Multiple states/provinces, please inquire

I Believe

"A lasting relationship must have the following ingredients: friendship, passion, respect, trust and communication."

About Ava Cadell Loveology University

If you want to learn more about love, relationships, romance, intimacy and sex, then www.LoveologyUniversity.com is for you. You can choose from a wide selection of videos, audios, e-books, individual certified courses or long term programs, Loveology University’s mission is to share positive information to empower individuals and enrich relationships, increase worldwide education and awareness on love, relationships, romance, intimacy and sexuality for adults of all ages over 18, genders, cultures, educational backgrounds and sexual orientations to enjoy their love lives, whether single or in a relationship. Loveology University is a unique brand with ground-breaking programs to certify a new type of coach: the Love Coach; it is the leading interactive resource for online courses and training on topics that range from Love, Communication, Kissing and Intimacy to Foreplay, Foot Fetish, Tantric Sex and Sexual Taboos. www.LoveologyUniversity.com has two long-term courses: The Loveologist certification, trains students for a career as a Love Coach with teaching and guiding techniques on how to build a Love Coaching practice and the Master Sexpert certification, which focuses on everything you ever wanted to know about sex so that you can become a great lover. All of Loveology University’s courses offer credits for therapists, counselors and nurses who require annual continuing education coursework. We are proud to offer students the opportunity to advance in the field of sexual health, personal development and love coaching to gain the skills essential for creating healthy and fulfilling love lives. Our vision is to exemplify the value of love and make a significant impact on the human race. Just imagine how millions of Love Coaches all helping people could change the vibration of this planet. At Loveology University we are dedicated to providing the most accurate and innovative educational courses to appeal to a broad audience by offering a friendly environment where you can choose from a wide selection of courses and learn at your own pace. All of our courses come in digital formats including e-books, audios, videos and slide shows for easy learning. We guarantee that all of our courses are of the highest quality and hope that you will be completely satisfied with your new found knowledge. We believe that Loveology University is your community for information on love, relationships, romance, intimacy and sexuality, which means that we'll do everything in our power to ensure that you not only receive the very best in education, but that you'll enjoy yourself while doing so. To that end, we've enhanced your online experience with plenty of FREE material that includes: LU Television "LU TV" You'll see Loveology students demonstrate romantic and sexy secrets that you can use to enhance your own love life. Quizzes: How do I know if I'm a great lover? How can I keep my relationship exciting sexually? Am I ready to meet Mr. or Ms. Right? LU Library with Articles on: · Your Love Life · Your Sex Life · Tantric Love & Sex · Most Asked Questions on Love and Sex LU Research Department Read LU’s survey on Cheating, edify yourself on the history of sex and find important links to safe sex and other research sites. And much more including videos and audios to educate, inspire and motivate you to have the best sex of your life. For more information go to: www.LoveologyUniversity.com

Ava Cadell Loveology University Success Stories

“He wants to have a threesome with another woman.”

Dating couples

I met Lila, 22 years old, and Brian, 24 years old, who had been dating for six months when they came to me for advice about having a threesome. I could tell that Brian was more eager than Lila, so I asked her to tell Brian her concerns. She confessed her biggest fear was that he may prefer the other woman or could become addicted to threesomes.more

I asked Brian to share his pros and cons of having a threesome with Lila; he said that on the upside it could expand their sexual horizon and would even agree to have a threesome with two men if she wanted. He could find no downside to the fantasy other than if it were to cause Lila distress.

I recommended they make his fantasy come true with the power of suggestion first, by pretending another woman was in bed with them. Lila would describe what she looks like, and then Brian can describe what she is doing to them both sexually in graphic detail. Afterward, if they may both really want to try it they can. However, sometimes the fantasy may be better than the reality.

"I want to last longer in bed"

Single men

Brad, 32 years old, came to see me because he wanted to learn how to maintain his erection for a longer duration of time. He worried he was no longer in his sexual prime and feared that with aging, his sexual endurance would weaken. I taught Brad to record the length of time he could exert himself sexually before reaching exhaustion; then try to increase this length (even if was with one minute intervals). I also gave him an exercise called Penis Lifts he could do on his own by placing a hand towel on the erect penis; then raising it up and down like a weight for 20 reps 3 times a day would strengthen the muscles of his penis. With his partner, Brad had more exciting exercises to do during intercourse; use the ratio of 3 shallow strokes to 1 deep thrust while keeping eyes open. Then, changing the rhythm to 6 shallow thrusts for each deep thrust, eyes open would allow him to prolong his ejaculation and stay erect longer.

Can you teach us something new and exciting to try in bed?


Mac, 32 years old, and Wendy, 27 years old, were newlyweds, but they had been dating for three years and wanted to consummate their marriage with some new sexual techniques in hopes of expanding their sexual horizon.more

As a solution, I taught them how to give each other a TriGasm. For the woman first, she should lie back while her lover stimulates her clitoris orally until she has reached a level 8 on a pleasure scale of 1 to 10. (10 equals orgasm). Then change course and stimulate her vulva in small circles with the tongue or fingers for about 2 minutes. Return to the clitoris and orally increase her level of pleasure to a 9; almost to the point of no return.

At this peak, insert a forefinger palm up into her vagina and find her G-spot, then tap, tap, tap it gently towards her navel. Simultaneously, stimulate her anus with a finger or vibrator to bring her to a mind-blowing, earth shattering, body-melting TriGasm.

For the man, he should lie back while his lover lavishes the head of his penis orally until he reaches a level 8 on a pleasure scale of 1 to 10. She should then use her mouth and tongue to stimulate his testicles for about 2 minutes. Return to the penis and orally increase his level of pleasure to a 9.5 (almost to the point of no return). Meanwhile fondle his testicles with one hand, while fingering his anus with the other.

We’re never in the mood at the same time


High school sweethearts, and parents of two, Jay, 36 years old, wanted sex every day and Becca, 35 years old, was satisfied with once a week. I explained to them that there are several reasons why a couple may not be in the mood at the same time. It could be physical: too tired. It could be emotional: too stressed. It could also be just plain boredom: too predictable.more

As a solution to resolve the mismatched sex drive, I asked Becca to tell Jay what would help her to get into a sexy mood more often. She confessed she had some resentment towards him expecting her to turn into a sexpot from mommy mode without any romance or foreplay. Jay promised to give Becca some time to unwind, let her take a bath and then give her a massage, focusing on the non sexual parts of her body first. Becca promised to be more responsive and sexual as she was when they were first married. The power of communication and compromise worked its magic once again.

Sex With My Husband is Painful

Married couples

Emily, a woman age 37, married for three years suffering from vaginal pain during intercourse came to see me. She could not specify when the pain first started, but said that it was getting progressively worse. Emily has been examined by her gynecologist who found no physical evidence such as vaginitis, Vaginismus, vaginal agenesis or cysts to support her pain. His diagnosis was that Emily’s pain was psychological.more

I suggested that Emily bring her husband, Ryan to the session because I find it helpful to observe the verbal interaction and body language of couples I am counseling. Besides, her problem did affect their relationship and he should be part of the solution process.

I discovered that they had a mismatched sex drive and that Emily felt like she was under constant pressure to have sex. Eventually, she just clamped up and so did her vaginal muscles as a form of defense.

In my office, I encouraged Emily and Ryan to do some Sensate Focus exercises on each other’s hands and face. Emily was able to experience receiving touch without any sexual agenda. For their homework, I gave them other non-sexual exercises that would create deeper intimacy without focusing on the goal of intercourse or orgasm. It was up to Emily to let Ryan know when she was ready to have intercourse.

A week later, Emily called to let me know that they were experiencing a deeper heart connection and to her delight, Ryan was being more romantic. During sexual intercourse, she did not experience the kind of pain she had before. On a scale of 1 to 10, her discomfort level was now between a 1 and a 2 instead of an 8 or higher.