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He knows exactly how to treat you like a queen.
By Kayla Kibbe — Written on Sep 19, 2018
Dating drama? Can’t relate. It’s not that you want to be THAT friend, but when your girls all congregate for that Sex & the City brunch-style dish sesh on their relationship problems and bad boyfriends, you find that you just don’t have all that much to contribute.
Sure, it’s not all sunshine and perfect dates and cute surprises. But when you get right down to it, he’s so good to you. This guy knows what you need to stay happy, and he doesn’t waste any time. He’s here to keep you happy in whatever way he can, and he knows exactly how to do it.
Of course, you already know why he’s so good to you: because you deserve it, obviously! But let’s face it, not every guy has treated you the way you deserve to be treated. You know what they say about kissing frogs.
Fortunately, those days are in the past. Your current guy knows you and he knows you damn well. Sometimes you’re pretty sure he actually knows you better than you know yourself.
Whether you thrive on gifts, attention, alone time, or surprises, he knows exactly how to make your day. Bad day at work? He’s there with a glass of wine and a hot bath to help you wind down. You two had a fight? He knows just how to make it up to you. Absolutely nothing’s wrong and you’re already having a great day? Chances are, he’s about to find a brand new way to make it even better. Hey, you’re not bragging. It’s just the kind of guy he is!
In fact, he’s so sweet and thoughtful, it’s almost like he can read your mind—which may make you wonder, how exactly does he do it? Even if it seems like your guy’s a mind reader, you definitely can’t read his. But his zodiac sign may be able to give you some clues! Hey, it does seem like you two are written in the stars, after all, so why not look to them for some answers?
Here’s what astrology can tell you about why he’s so good to you, according to his horoscope sign.
ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
Everyone knows the Aries guy is all about competition. And while some people may see his super competitive nature as a weakness, it’s working out pretty well for you! Your guy is in constant competition with himself to make you happier than you’ve ever been. He’s always one step ahead of the game, meaning he wakes up every morning with a new plan to make this your best day yet.
Aries is also known to struggle with impulse control issues. His impulsive nature may not always be his friend, but it does mean he’s always ready to splurge on you. He’s always bringing you home surprises and he doesn't think twice about dropping cash on last-minute dates and adventures. He’s a man on a mission, and that mission is to keep you happy!
TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
Reliable, patient, and devoted, the Taurus man is known for being the perfect partner in relationships. It’s in his nature to be loyal and protective, which means he works hard to keep you feeling safe and happy in your relationship.
He may not be known for spontaneity, but your Taurus guy gives you something much harder to find: stability. He does everything in his power to keep your relationship strong and healthy. You never have to question where you stand with your Taurus man because he gives you everything you need to feel happy and secure.
GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
Being in love with a Gemini is a non-stop adventure. He’s known for being outgoing and expressive, which means he’s always ready to shower you with affection. Unlike a lot of guys, the Gemini man doesn’t try to hide his feelings. He puts it all out there, so you never have any doubts about his feelings for you.
Your Gemini guy is also always ready to have fun and he dreads falling into repetition and routine. He works hard to keep the spark alive in your relationship, always planning fun dates and spontaneous getaways. There’s no such thing as a rut when you’re dating a Gemini.
CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
As a water sign, your Cancer guy is naturally intuitive. He’s in tune with his own emotions as well as yours, meaning he knows how to keep you both happy. Due to his highly emotional nature, this man can be very deep and romantic, and those tendencies lead to a profound connection you can both feel.
Along with his capacity for romance, Cancer’s natural intuition means he’s really good at being able to read the moment and understand how you’re feeling. He’s good at detecting your needs, so he always knows exactly what to do in every situation. He just gets you.
LEO (July 23 - August 22)
The Leo guy has a passionate, warm-hearted nature. His cheerfulness, optimism, and intensity make for the perfect combination. He wants your relationship to be fun and happy, but not in a lighthearted, superficial way. He just genuinely wants you two to be truly happy together above all else.
Leo also loves feeling good and being spoiled, which means he wants you to feel the same way. He knows how good it feels to be showered with attention and sensual pleasures, so he wants to do the same to you. Leo wants you both to be living your best lives at all times.
VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
Virgo is a planner. He’s super organized and has you memorized down to every last detail. He may seem like a mind-reader, but he didn’t actually just wake up intuitively knowing everything about you. He put real effort into getting to know you and learning how to treat you exactly the way you want to be treated. He’s naturally kind and hardworking, and he puts the maximum amount of effort into every aspect of your relationship.
He may not be one for spontaneity, he’s way too careful and organized. But your Virgo guy does what so few guys can: he puts in the effort. No matter how long you two have been together, your Virgo guy never stops putting hard work into your relationship, and it speaks volumes.
LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
Libra is all about keeping the peace and playing fair, which is really the recipe for a perfect relationship. The Libra man has an understanding of your needs as well as his own, and he works hard to find the best way to keep you two in harmony. Your relationship always feels fair and balanced, and you’re both always getting exactly what you need and want from each other.
Libra’s fair-minded nature and ability to see both sides of an argument also means he’s great at working through disagreements. There’s no drama with a Libra guy, he always finds a practical solution to keep you both happy.
SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
Scorpios are notoriously passionate lovers. The Scorpio man is always ready to heat things up, both inside and outside of the bedroom. His love is powerful and intense, and he makes your romance feel like the stuff of legends. He’s the Romeo to your Juliet, the Heathcliff to your Cathy. His passion and intensity make every day feel like a living fantasy.
He thrives on emotional experience and expression, which means he’s never shy about his feelings for you. He wants your love to burn bright and hot for everyone to see. Your relationship definitely isn’t drama-free, but he makes it all worth it.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
The Sagittarius man is energetic and optimistic. He’s good natured and goal-oriented, and keeping you happy is one of his top priorities. He’s also very idealistic, which means no mountain is too high. If you want something, your Sagittarius guy is committed to making your dreams come true.
He’s also incredibly generous, so he’ll shower you with anything your heart desires. Whether it’s gifts, love, or attention you’re after, your Sagittarius guy is prepared to give you everything he has.
CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
The Capricorn guy is the opposite of the “can’t commit” stereotype. He’s practical, reliable, and family-oriented. In short, Capricorn is exactly the kind of guy you want to settle down with.
He puts a lot of time and effort into your relationship, and he takes you and your needs seriously. If he didn’t see a future here, there’s no way he’d be sticking around. He’s in it for the long-haul, so he’s very careful to make sure he keeps you happy. He’s planning for your future together, so he wants to make sure he builds a solid base for your relationship.
AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
Your Aquarius guy is a deep thinker who is also great with people. He really likes to think things through, so he’s put a lot of time and thought into your relationship. He knows what you need and he’s figured out exactly how to meet those needs.
Aquarius is also very innovative, which means he’s always coming up with new ways to make you happy. Just because he’s found one good approach to your relationship doesn’t make things a done deal. He’s always challenging himself to think up new ideas even better than his last. He may already have a million ways to make you happy, but you can bet he’s already thinking up more!
PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
Pisces is sensitive, creative, and the most intuitive sign of the entire Zodiac. This merman’s capacity for emotion is deeper than the ocean, and he craves a deep, almost psychic connection. Your Pisces man is the ultimate romantic, and he wants to connect with you on every level.
The Pisces guy can’t help but pour everything he has into a relationship (which often comes back to bite him!) He wants to give you everything he has, even though he’s probably been hurt before. The Pisces man isn’t afraid to be vulnerable in relationships. When he decides to open up, he’s all in.
Kayla Kibbe is a writer wrapping up her final semester at Connecticut College where she is an English major with a concentration in creative writing. She writes about astrology, love and relationships, covering everything from dating and single life to love and marriage.