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He just can't get enough, and who can blame him?
By Nicole Bradley-Bernard — Written on May 16, 2018
Falling in love is complicated. When dealing with all of the intense emotions associated with becoming head over heels infatuated with someone, everyone can get a little obsessed from time to time.
Depending on your horoscope or star sign, there are going to be different (and valid) reasons that a guy becomes obsessed with you, according to astrology.
Whether it’s because you’re a confident and fiery Aries or because you’re a loyal and down to earth Virgo; there’s something to love (and be mildly obsessed with *wink, wink*) in all of the astrological zodiac signs.
Obviously, if he’s becoming too obsessed – it may be time to take preventative measures before you have a full-fledged stalker on your hands. Let’s be real, all of us girls have seen the scary side of male obsession.
But assuming his obsession is well received and you’re into him (maybe even a bit obsessed yourself *wink, wink*), you’re probably curious to know why he seems to be so particularly taken with you.
And, no one blames you, we all want the answers when it comes to relationships. I mean, wondering why the person you’re seeing even likes you is part of the stress of dating … or was that just me?
Maybe the answer is in astrology. Maybe his fondness for you is due to a strength in your personality that is attributed to the zodiac sign you were born under.
Maybe his obsession (and possible eventual love) for you was actually written in the stars.
Find your zodiac sign by horoscope date below to find the most likely reason that he is obsessed with you, according to astrology.
ARIES (March 21 – April 19)
You know the saying “confidence is sexy”? Well, that is very true when it comes to the Aries. The Aries zodiac sign tends to be confident, enthusiastic and passionate people. All of these characteristics make them hot as hell and irresistible to their romantic interests.
The brutal honest nature of the Aries makes them a rarity that intrigues men as well. An Aries will say anything, which makes men feel more able to have an open discussion with her. Sure, the Aries has a short temper, but that tends to just get the guys obsessed with them all the more fired up.
TAURUS (April 20 – May 20)
Guys that have been burned in the past are the most likely to get obsessed with the Taurus due to their reliable and devoted nature. The Taurus is also very patient and practical, which makes them the ideal romantic partner which CAN lead to men thinking that they are “the one” more easily. The Taurus is also very likely to be a touchy feely type of person, which has a tendency to drive their men crazy.
GEMINI (May 21 – June 20)
Men tend to get obsessed with Gemini’s because they tend to be very affectionate and adaptable. A Gemini is very likely to be the type to adapt to HIS schedule and snuggle up to you just when he needs to feel close.
CANCER (June 21 – July 22)
Fellas that get obsessed with a Cancer tend to become obsessed because of the Cancer’s imaginative, loyal and tenacious nature. The Cancer is also a very sympathetic and intuitive zodiac sign so men tend to be attracted to the way she responds when he expresses a feeling. He had a bad day at work? The Cancer is likely to understand that and know exactly what will help him unwind and feel better about a crappy day.
LEO (July 23 – August 22)
Guys get obsessed with Leos because of their passionate, cheerful and humorous nature. He is likely to be smitten by the fact that she is funny AND sweet. He is likely to then become obsessed when her very high sense of self-confidence becomes a huge turn on. Ultra-Confidence = Ultra-Sexy!
VIRGO (August 23 – September 22)
Men that become obsessed with Virgos tend to become obsessed by how natural they can be. He’s likely to become fond of her due to her fondness of nature, animals and a healthy lifestyle. Eventually, he will fall head over heels for her kind and loyal personality.
LIBRA (September 23 – October 22)
Libras tend to get a man’s attention with their peaceful and graceful presence. Men tend to become obsessed once they discover the Libra’s gentle nature and love of the outdoors. Libras are the most likely of the zodiac signs to attract mates that are avid hikers and campers.
SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21)
The Scorpio’s brave and passionate nature makes them intriguing to the opposite sex. When a man becomes obsessed with a Scorpio, he is likely to go on and on about how great it is being able to tease each other playfully and how fierce (and sexy) she is.
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SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 21)
When a man becomes obsessive about a Sagittarius he is likely to include things like “her enthusiasm”, “her sense of humor”, and “her intense curiosity for life” on his list of reasons why she is so great.
CAPRICORN (December 22 – January 19)
The family-oriented guy is the most likely to become obsessed with a Capricorn because Capricorns are the most likely of the zodiac signs to put a high value on family, tradition and responsibility. Once he’s ready to settle down, he is sure to be gaga over a Capricorn goddess.
AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18)
Men that enjoy women that are intellectual thinkers (as opposed to emotional thinkers) with more progressive ideas tend to become easily obsessed with Aquarius’. The Aquarius’s optimistic nature and love of intellectual conversations make them the ideal mate for those that enjoy long conversations about making the world a better place.
PISCES (February 19 – March 20)
The Pisces is the most likely of the zodiac signs to remind their mates of a princess due to their musical nature, their giving nature, and their ability to achieve the best emotional relationships. A Pisces’s tendency to be gentle, artistic and wise mixed with their princess-like qualities make them often feel “too good to be true” to the men that become obsessed with them.
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Nicole Bradley-Bernard is a writer who needs coffee more than she needs anyone’s approval. She enjoys putting bright colors in her curly brown hair, spending time outside on cool days and being with her partner in life, Eric, who she considers a continuing source of inspiration.