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A vibrator can be an important and integral part of getting to know our own bodies and our own sources of pleasure. The buttons that work for one will not work for another, and while we're hoping that our partner will know how to please us, it's helpful if we know ourselves what pleases us. Who knows, they may even ask for some guidance.
Sex is meant to be fun and adventurous, and sometimes that can happen by adding a bit of vibrator action into the mix. Spicing up the typical pattern of sex positions can be the best use of sex toys. Whether you're using it on him or him on you (or as a couple on each other), you'll be shocked how many options it gives you.
"Missionary can become much more pleasurable with a vibrating couples' penis ring, making sure her clitoris never gets ignored and he gets to experience a new sensation," says Dr. Kat Van Kirk, a licensed marriage and sex therapist and sexologist at Adam & Eve.
Once upon a time, it was believed that men would be offended by including a vibrator in our sex play. Some believed they would find it an insult to their manhood. But while every man is different, that's often not the case.
We can show them how using a vibe can, if anything, make sex more fun for them, too. Maybe you want to hold a vibe against your cheeks as you give him a blow job. Once they experience that vibration and the pleasure it brings them, they'll be eager to find out more.
Reality is, most of us have used vibrators — with a partner and without. Obviously, there's something we all should be experiencing. Check out these seven sex positions that make your sex toys the real star.
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1. Doggy style
Traditional doggy style can get turned up a notch with a double penetration strap on that he wears, says Dr. Kat. This means she gets the pleasure of being penetrated both vaginally and anally with each thrust.
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2. Missionary
Missionary has a reputation for being a slightly boring sex position, but adding a vibrator into the mix will make this classic feel incredibly new and exciting, says Tristan Weedmark of We-Vibe.
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3. Modified 69
The simultaneous stimulation that the 69 position offers is great, but this move can be tricky to pull off.
"An app-enabled vibrator can remedy that. While performing oral, you can wear a vibrator like the We-Vibe 4 Plus. You'll enjoy stimulation on your G-spot and clitoris while he controls the vibrations from his phone or the remote," says Weedmark.
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4. Enhanced oral
Sex is all about having fun so don't be afraid to get creative.
"A bendable vibrator can be very versatile. Placing a flexible vibrator around your neck while you perform oral on him is a great way to add some extra buzz to foreplay," says Weedmark.
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5. Girl on top
Whether you're all about cowgirl or reverse cowgirl, when the lady is on top you're in a prime spot to use a vibe. A vibrating cock ring would work perfect here — just grind your clit against it and you're good to go.
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6. Spooning
Sex in the spooning position is comfortable, intimate, and easily enhanced with a vibrator.
"Spooning allows him access to stimulate your clitoris and breasts. A vibrator does the trick for your clitoris, but can also be used to stimulate other areas, like your nipples," says Weedmark. Play around and see what feels good.
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7. Pegging
The pleasures of the prostate are all the rage for both straight and gay guys these days, says Dr. Kat. And it turns out that it's also good for your health: Prostate stimulation has been correlated with lower risks of prostate cancer. So turn the tables and enjoy the control of penetrating him next time.
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