Um, I Just Found Out My Husband Has Been Taping Us Having Sex!

Teddy Bear Videotaping
Love, Sex

When your privacy in violated in your own home, by the man who is to protect you—what do you do?

Dear Abiola,

I married for life. I was taught that a man is the head of the household, so I waited a long time to find the right one. I was a teen mom, so when I finally got married last year at 41 everyone was happy for me. This man proposed after six months because we both knew what we wanted and we got married three months after that.

Now I just found out that my new husband has been using spy cams set up all over the bedroom and bathroom to tape us having sex. I found the first camera when I went to wash this stuffed teddy bear dog that he sat up on our dresser. He said it reminded him of his childhood, so I left it. Something was weird after I washed it so I zipped it open and it looked like there was a recording device in it.

Find out what Abiola has to say over at Essence

This article was originally published at Essence. Reprinted with permission from the author.