How To Give A Perfect Blow Job In 3 Easy Steps

Here's the low-down on going down.

By Emily Morse — Written on Jun 29, 2017

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How To Give A Perfect Blow Job (In 3 Easy Steps)

During a particularly challenging blowjob situation in one episode of Sex and the City, Samantha Jones famously proclaimed, "They don't call it a job for nothing!"

Luckily, all oral sex doesn't have to feel like a job. Get ready to lick it, grip it, and finish it.

Following these three easy steps will make giving a guy a BJ quicker, easier, and more pleasurable for both of you.

1. Lick it.

Your tongue is the greatest weapon in your arsenal.

Wrap your mouth around his penis, cover your teeth with your lips, and prepare to lick. Whenever you swoop up, swirl your tongue around the head of the penis.

The frenulum is the most sensitive part of the penis, located on the underside of the penis where the head and the base meet. There's a little V inscribed in his penis — that's the frenulum. Trace it with your tongue before traveling back down the base.

2. Grip it.

You don't have to swallow his entire penis to give a great blowjob, but you do want to apply an adequate amount of pressure. Using your hands is a great way to compensate for any lack of pressure from your mouth, plus it makes giving a blowjob a lot easier.

Wrap your hand around the base of his penis as if you're about to give it a handshake. Make a firm grip without suffocating his penis and start moving his penis skin up and down while your mouth works on the tip of his penis and the upper half of the base. Try giving his penis a little twist with your hand as you circle your tongue around his tip.

Take notice of what he likes and redirect your attention accordingly.

3. Finish it.

You'll know when he's getting close to orgasming. His penis will become extremely hard and his breath will quicken. Once he's almost there, keep doing exactly what you're doing until he orgasms. Whatever you're doing is working, don't get ambitious and improvise at the end.