Broken Promises


Addiction to lying...Addiction to porn, magazines etc...or both?

My husband and I have been together off and on for the past 7 years and 2 kids. What I thought was addiction to porn may not be. I'm thinking maybe its me that doesn't turn him on. He made several promises that he would no longer bring that stuff into the house but he still continues to do it..this falls back to my childhood as to why I cant deal with those things. When he is confronted he gets very defensive. He really makes me feel as if I'm just not enough for him. So here comes the blame game. My question is how do I deal with this because its over the edge? Also I have noticed that what he brings in are all young girls...well over the age of 18 that is...that also gives me a major complex...