What Do Men Want? These 11 Qualities

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Love, Self

Find out what really matters to him.

Men can be confusing creatures. Sometimes it feels impossible to know what he's thinking or what he's looking for.

But don't get too frustrated. "The more you know about men the better your dating experience will be, because you can then be intentional and date responsibly," dating coach Kevin Carr writes.

From someone who's goal driven to a woman who accepts him and doesn't judge him for his past, Carr counts down the qualities that really matter to men. Which ones surprise you?

See the list at Essence: The 11 Qualities Men Love Most

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