Target Dating Or Target Practice By Kathryn Alice?


Had I invested my money on Matthew Hussey's Get the Guy & Debi Berndt's Let Love In, I'd be married!

Kathryn Alice is peddling her latest product to attract a soulmate. It's called "Target Dating for Your Soulmate". Love may be priceless but Alice is charging $149.95 for the download version of target dating.

This is another recycle of her philosophy which claims to have united 100,000 soulmates via her workshops. I'd still be curious how the 100,000 people compare against the total number of people who have done her work and never met their soulmate. I guess those still single are just lazy, which is what Kathryn Alice told me was the reason I never met my soulmate.

She can backtrack all she wants on what she meant to say. Bottom line: her method is not for everyone. No one method will deliver 100% of the time to 100% of the consumers. The only guarantee in life is death and taxes, not your soulmate. The last time I did Alice's "Date for Your Soulmate" and "Soulmate Bootcamp" along with meditating to her "Manifesting Love" CD, I met my "Captain America" but he didn't want me.

Looking back, what I really needed was deep subconscious resetting of my inner love blueprint while perfecting the right "come hither" body language to get a man to approach me. If I had invested the same money on Matthew Hussey's "Get the Guy" method (body language) and Debi Berndt's Let Love In (unconscious reset) during the entire 14 months I immersed myself in Alice's work, I know I would have met and married my soulmate by now and have my baby Heather (if I have a daughter I'm naming her Heather) to boot.

Matthew Hussey is all about results and his program is based on body language and perfecting having the kind of lifestyle that has you meet alot of people every week. This is a very valuable skill as social skills become impaired in this digital world. Online dating is a tool but people rely too much on it. The art of connecting with people, not just for romance, is a lost art. Hussey helps you restore that social savvy that is a must in creating a life you love so your love will want to join you in it.

Debi Berndt is all about programming your unconscious mind to attract and sustain a love, not just any guy or gal, but the extraordinary partner for you. If your love blueprint is wonky then some subconscous retraining can help align your conscious goals for healthy love with your unconscious objectives. Many times it is the hidden agenda of your mind that sabotages love. Between confidence and healthy inner love models, setting your mind up for love success is imperative to attracting and keeping the great love you find.

As I have mentioned before, both Hussey and Berndt offer a money-back guarantee, which is a testament to their faith in their product. It also tells me that they are not marketing themselves as some "Ultimate Love Messiah" who blames you when the product doesn't deliver. Sometimes the problem is the person, or the merchandise, or a bad fit between the two. Rarely is it because the customer is lazy.

So, the choice is yours. Either invest in people like Alice and risk money you earned go to a method with no guarantee or at least a refund policy if it doesn't work OR take the smarter strategy and listen to Hussey and Berndt types. In the end, how soon do you want your real awesome love in your life? In a New York minute or yesterday is my answer. Despite my inner resistence which Alice just advised me to meditate to, I'm still committed to getting out of my own way when it comes to love. I really do want my soulmate here without any further delay.

In the meantime, Heather Strang, who helped me ease the sadness and grief over my experience with Alice, coaches me to focus on what I want and see the love in that situation. Heather is on target far more than Alice's "Target Dating" ever could be for me. I did see the good in my letdown from Love NOT Finding Me. My Captain America wasn't looking for me but I've got a whole fiction book being published this summer 2013 where my heroine DOES get him.  The book is aptly named "Capturing Captain America" and if it ever becomes optioned for a film like Heather Strang's "The Quest", Colin Farrell HAS to play my character Ronan.

With all the experiences during my 14 month Odyssey doing the wrong method for me, at least a funny love story (albeit fiction), was born from it. Thankfully people like Heather are supporting me stay in faith and trust that I'll give birth to a baby still.

Ironically, Kathryn Alice called Matthew Hussey's work as operating on the "animal level of attraction" whilst her's was on the "soulmate level" of attraction. She also called her work on a recorded teleconference as being of "the highest level" and not to jump to a method like Debi Berndt's because (A) it would be leaving Alice's program just before the soulmate arrived, (B) her meditations were hypnotic enough to shift energy to magnetize a soulmate, and (C) it would distract the focus and disperse the energy to include another method in one's life while doing Alice's work.

Given that Alice doesn't give refunds, maybe it's time to call a spade a spade, it's not "target dating" .... it's being the object of "emotional target practice". What else? I felt shot to the heart for a reason after it was all said (that I was lazy) and done.