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If I Don't Meet Mr. Right, Should I Marry My Male Friend?

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A back-up plan might sound like a good idea, but YourTango Expert Jennifer Wilkov begs to differ.

It's very common for single folks to worry about finding a potential mate to marry. You may wonder, if I don't meet Mr. Right, should I marry my best male friend?

In this video, author, relationship coach and YourTango Expert Jennifer Wilkov says having a "back-up guy" isn't such a great idea, explaining that "when you have that back-up guy, you're actually taking up space in your relationship so that the right guy can't get in." Danica Patrick & The Secrets To Success

If the thought "If all else fails ... ?" comes to mind, you have to stop right now and think about the implications of marrying solely for the sake of being married. Want to learn more? Check out the video above.

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