My Boyfriend is Distant – How Can I Melt His Frozen Heart?


I know it may be a hard for you to face the truth right now, but chances are that if the boyfriend is distant, the boyfriend may be planning to bail.

Please don’t lie to yourself – That never helps. If he is cold, distant and uninterested for more than a couple of days, he’s not “just going through a phase”, or “suffering from hormonal imbalance.” And he won’t “just get over it with time”. Timing is crucial and you can’t just ignore this situation if you want your relationship to survive.

WHY is Your Boyfriend Distant?

Though this is a question only you can answer, I can guess the possible reasons without knowing you or your relationship at all:

He is angry at you and not revealing why – If you recently had a fight, or you an issue that keeps coming up in your relationship, he may be angry at you. Instead of talking to you about it and dealing with the problem, he chooses to avoid the conflict (most men do that) and pull away from you, keeping a “safe” distance.
He is feeling guilty about something “bad” that he did, or planning to do. Again, instead of dealing with the consequences, he chooses to run away.
He is losing interest. For some reason he is losing interest in you and your relationship. This makes him step back and think about his next steps and figure out his emotions.
He feels that he is no longer in love with you and planning to break up with you. Men don’t like to be direct and rather slowly and gradually disappear from a relationship, instead of ending things directly.

What Can You Do Now?
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