Men Say I'm Too Controlling; How Do I Stop?

Self, Heartbreak

How to comfortably let go of the power in your relationships.

Do you scare away the men in your life because you come off as too controlling? Do you want to learn how to take a backseat in your relationships and let the other person lead for a change? Help! My Boyfriend & I Always Argue

In this video, Relationship & YourTango Expert Jasbina Ahluwalia helps a reader who is often criticized by the men she dates that she's too controlling. She wants to be able to hold on to her power as a woman but also maintain a healthy and balanced relationship. Jasbina admits that she comes across this problem frequently when coaching or matchmaking her powerful clients. She suggests being a self-empowered woman instead of a powerful, controlling woman is the perfect solution to this problem.

So, what's the difference between self-empowerment and power? Watch the video above to see Jasbina explain what makes a self-empowered woman so sexy to men.