Love, Heartbreak

Steps To Get Back My Boyfriend?

Steps to get back my boyfriend?

Just recently my boyfriend broke up with me. I made the mistake of crying to him about it. He still talks to me though whenever I text him. He always answers back. He even answers when we talk on the phone. Throughout the relationship we never had a fight, everything is perfect. He told me that he loved me and wanted to marry me and we even went to look at rings. He is the guy that I have been waiting for my whole life and he is everything that I have ever said that I have wanted in a guy. When he broke up with me he actually started crying when he first saw that I was crying. He told me that he had to do this because over the past couple of weeks he was starting to be distant and he knew I could tell because I kept asking him if he was ok or if something was wrong.

He wouldn't tell me he loved me back, he wouldn't cuddle with me, he never wanted to hang out, he didn't talk about how much he missed me when we went a while without seeing each other, and he wouldn't walk me to my car, open my car door for me (which he has always done for me since day 1), or kiss me goodbye. He told me he was busy with work and didn't have time to give me the attention I deserve and he said he didn't feel like his feelings were as strong anymore and he didn't love me anymore. How do I get my ex-boyfriend back? I am confused at how someone can just wake up one day and not love someone they planned on spending the rest of their life with. He told me there was nothing I did wrong and it was him.

He said that the relationship was perfect and that it was amazing. He said that maybe there was a chance in the future but he can't promise that and said he wasn't interested in anyone right now and he wants me to be happy. He said that if I want to move on, I can move on. He has always been a complete gentleman and he has always proved to me that there are really good guys out there, but then just a few weeks ago after he broke up with me, he said he just wanted to be friends and sex buddies. I don't understand because he has never EVER been like this. I want him back and I want the old Josh back and I am completely lost. I told him the other day that I agree with the breakup because I had read that that's a good thing to say. He replied and asked why I agree with him, but for the most part, he just didn't seem that concerned. How do I get him back?

I am worried that if I ignore him he will think I have moved on and then think he never has a chance and I don't want him anymore and then he will move on. I know in my heart that if he ended up with someone else it would break my heart. Out of all of my relationships, this has been the most amazing. No one has treated me so well and he said the same thing when we were together. I just don't see how it won't work out. I felt like it was meant to be. Please Help! 

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