Best Of The Web: Monogamy & Rom-Coms

Love, Self

Plus Halloween costumes and drug addiction.

Everybody's working for the weekend and the weekend is a heck of an employer. Before you go put in your 48 hours, check out the best of the web on love and relationship because even we can't get to it all.

My pals Em & Lo have some reasons for you to keep it monogamous… ten of them (see the list). And then because fair is nothing without balance (right?), they have ten reasons to try non-monogamy (see that list). If you can't beat them, join them.

The lads over at Asylum lent some space to their resident chick, Emily McCombs, to discuss how ladies (at least one lady) feel about porn and watching it on a TV or computer. He Watches Porn—Is Your Relationship In Trouble?

Well, you mayn't like porn but most dudes don't like romantic comedies (unless it's Love Actually or features but does not star Jerry O'Connell). The resident dude at Crushable explains it all. Reclaiming Rom-Coms: 4 Reasons To Love Them

But there are a few good romantic funny films. Cupid's Pulse has a list of ones that you can watch over the weekend. No Phillippes, please.

And watching porn sometimes gives a guy a misunderstanding about how easy a lady can, you know, have an orgasm. Betty Confidential says you shouldn't fake it. My thoughts on this: Fake It Til You Make It, Ladies

There's hope, Guyism has tips on how to get a lady to have a good time regarding intimate touching. Ladies, now you have to enjoy these things too.

The kittens at College Candy discuss riding raw dog (having condomless sex). Finally, a gal admits it feels better bare. Is Condomless Sex The New Engagement Ring?

Sometimes the best laid plans of mice and men don't go as expected. LoveInTheDumps explains what a Sloppy Laydown is in regards to human sexuality AND in the publishing industry.

Instead of carping about bed sexy time, you can do something about it. And that goes for basically everything in a relationship. Our Melanie Gorman explains to the Huffington Post explains how chronic complaining is submarining your relationship.

You know who's not complaining? Brett Favre's wife Deanna Favre. She's more into letting faith be her umbrella. Lemondrop would prefer she take a more active approach to fixing her relationship. Side note: Lets stop using the suffix "-gate" with any scandal. Could Apple Have Stopped Brett Favre's Sexting?

How could a woman, like the wife of a famous quarterback, know her dude is goofing around on the side? Well, Leftos has seven signs that he may be creepin'.

Want to prevent cheating? Maybe you could marry yourself. Jezebel has an angle on a woman who put a ring on it. I suppose that this is one of the unintended consequences of legalizing gay marriage. Kidding, der.

But even worse that wearing the tux and the gown at the same time is being duped into purchasing your own engagement ring. Yarg, indeed. The Frisky has a harsh story about the pitfalls of addiction and codependency.

Getting milked for heavy cash is decidedly unromantic. And maybe this whole darn world is getting too unromantic, dammit. Bad Online Dates wants to know what the heck happened to wooing and courtship.

Finally, our buddies at Glo want you to be ready for Halloween hookups. They want you to know what that dude's costume says about him. I'd say pale spot where his wedding ring should be probably means that he's married… or his character is married. 50 Couples Halloween Costumes

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